Anonymous: So Daddy used his pussy before the end of no pussy November. It was amazing but im disappointed for not making it to the end. Sad to say he doesn’t want to do anal only anymore. What can I do to change his mind??

What are his reasons for not wanting to continue with anal only? With a specific idea of his reasoning, there might be different approaches you can take, but in a general sense, you can back away from it a little bit for a while but still maintain a strong anal focus and positivity, wear plugs, play with your ass, tell him how hot it makes you and how sexy you feel when he fucks your ass, etc., and see if he wants to try anal only again in the future. Some people dive straight into it and it sticks, others ease into it very gradually over time, and others yet cycle back and forth for a while before settling one way or the other.

Anonymous: Sadly I don’t think we will stay anal only this month has been awesome, finding out I love anal more than anything else, the amazing orgasms, Ahh oh well; I’m going to keep following to hopefully be able to keep up the dream 🙁 I will continue my solo play and get it when I can. Hubs just loves the vagina too much. Thank you all for your lovely posts.

I’m sorry to hear that he doesn’t want it as much as you do, but don’t give up hope for it just yet. Not everyone gets there immediately, but it can still be possible to gradually move towards anal only over time. Try to come up with a compromise with him where you incorporate anal into your routine together even still doing vaginal. You can be completely anal only with your solo play, and get as much anal with him as you can. Some end up “anal always” where they still do vaginal but always (or usually) at least end sex with anal. Others go back to vaginal but then do anal on a regular interval as well, or intermittently go back to a period of anal only, whether for a week at a time, or another month a few times a year. Over time, who knows? He might come around.

Good luck!

Anonymous: Anal is my favorite thing, it feels amazing every time. My boyfriend hasnt fucked my pussy in almost 2 months and i could care less if he ever does again. His friend and his girlfriend wanna try it out too, so they asked us for pointers, and i hope she likes being an anal slut as much as i do.

It really is the best thing ever. You should tell him that you want to commit to being anal only with him and make it official if you haven’t already. (It is No Pussy November, after all! The perfect time for an anal only commitment.)

It’s a really positive thing for anal-loving women and anal only women to help their friends do anal and go anal only themselves, because that direct connection and trust can really help people open up to the idea of doing anal and have a good experience, countering the myths and bad experiences that are still somewhat pervasive in the world. Do your best, make sure they’re both well-informed and ready for anal together, and I’m sure she’ll have an awesome first experience and want to keep doing anal more and more after.

bisexualattentionwhore: I think I’m going to continue being anal only for the rest of November. What do you guys think? I don’t think my pussy deserves to be filled anyway

Go for it! Being anal only is always better. By the end of the month you probably won’t want to go back to using your pussy anyway.

thatchocolatecoveredloli: It’s been very interesting and I kind of want to keep going. Me and Daddy talked about waiting one entire month before he uses my pussy again. It surprises me how much of an anal slut I’ve become. I never thought I could be so satisfied from having only having my ass filled over and over again. Should I…can I keep going?

Yes, you should keep going! Go for at least a whole month at a minimum. It sounds like you’re loving it—so why stop now? Wait until the end of the month to reassess. If you’re still having fun then, stay anal only.

thatchocolatecoveredloli: You guys helped convince Daddy and me! He says it sounds like a good idea. I think he just likes filling me up completely. No pussy November challenge accepted. ?

Anonymous: I’ve talked to my husband before about wanting to go anal only. I love it so much, pretty much wear a plug all day but I don’t think he loves it as much as I do, how do I get him to want to be only anal with me. He gets all the forplay fun bjs, footjob, boibs, hands. I tell him I love him and his body, but I get none of that, just light kissing and fondling right before sex. He never wants to finger my ass or ass worship nothing. I live vicariously through this blog lool much love!

Keep communicating your desires, and try to have actual conversations about it and work out if you can find a mutually acceptable compromise between your two positions on it.

You can also work to that point more incrementally: rather than jumping straight to wanting to go anal only, first work to start having anal sex more often, then add something like anal only weekends into your routine, then one week a month, then try going anal only for a full month, etc., and then after that see if he’s willing to try it longer term.

Anonymous: Hi! We’ve been doing No Pussy November for a week and a half now and I have a question. If I rub my clit while we have sex I can cum and it feels good but if I don’t rub it, it feels like I cum and it’s even better but I’m still horny after and I don’t feel satisfied with just the one orgasm. Is this normal with anal?

That’s totally normal! You’ve discovered how to orgasm from anal sex, and you’ve discovered one of its big benefits! Whereas clit orgasms cause a drop in arousal after, anal only orgasms typically do not and you can keep going as much as you want. I’d consider yourself lucky for figuring out how to cum from anal so easily and go at least the rest of the month without clit stimulation to further develop and really solidify the ability to cum from just anal and get used to staying more aroused more often, which in turn helps with having frequent anal sex and makes anal a lot more appealing than vaginal.

say-no-to-the-o:

3 November, 2018
From @littlehumpybunny (Say No To The O Member and Sister in Denial)

From today onwards I, @littlehumpybunny, swear that I for at least one week will be participating in “No Pussy November, which means the following

1. I must play with my ass until I edge at least once a day.
2. I may not touch my clit unless I am also playing with my ass.
3. Toys may only be used on or in my ass.
4. That I must have my plug in at least an hour a day.
5. That if by the end of the week on Nov. 10th if I feel good about the week I will swear to my aforementioned statement for another week so on and so on until “No Pussy November” is over.

If I don’t follow these rules, the only way I’m allowed to edge for the rest of the week is by humping with clothespins on my pussy lips.

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Sleep well, @littlehumpybunny. The arousal will likely kill you in the morning (fingers crossed). You friends at Say No To The O Member

Read more about @littlehumpybunny HERE.

Anonymous: Is it cheating to do “no pussy November” if you’ve always been anal only? My parents are very religious and I was raised thinking I had to save my virginity for my husband. When I started having boyfriends I learned about “Gods loophole”(lol) and started having anal sex with my boyfriends. I love it now and I cum much harder being fucked in the ass than if I just play with my pussy.

Not at all! A lot of people participate even though they’re already anal only. You can always take the opportunity to add another level to your anal only commitment, whether it be clit denial and only orgasming through anal, long term butt plug wear, increased anal play more frequently or with larger toys, or something else that interests you and relates to the anal only lifestyle. You could also choose to make the commitment to staying anal only permanently, even after marriage.

Anonymous: My boyfriend and I have been anal only for 2 years now and things are great, but we are trying to find something to really test my anal limits. We’ve used toys like dildos, vibrators, etc.. But we are looking for something new. Are there any interactions you can think of that will take our anal sex to an extreme? We are very adventerous. 🙂

Congratulations on the two years anal only! There are all sorts of things you could try doing to push your anal limits and get deeper into the anal only lifestyle.

• If you use clitoral stimulation currently during masturbation or sex, you could work to stop that and focus on pure anal only and learn to orgasm from just anal (if you can’t already). Using numbing creams like Orajel can be a good part of this process as well, temporarily removing any sensations from your clit.
• You could start wearing a butt plug more often until you more or less always have one in whenever possible aside from when having sex, using the bathroom, or cleaning.
• You could buy larger dildos and plugs and continue pushing your size limits with them. Depth play can be fun in addition to increases in width.
• You could start working towards double anal, whether with a third partner if that’s something that interests the both of you, or with a dildo alongside your boyfriend.
• Similarly, you can start working towards anal fisting. The stretch can be similar to larger toys, but with the more intimate connection of your boyfriend’s hand inside you.
• Chastity piercings to close your pussy and anal only-themed tattoos can be more advanced ways of symbolizing your anal only status.

I’ll be interested to hear what you end up trying!