Anonymous: The feeling of a cock inside my ass, filling me and stretching me open like nothing else, makes me feel so sexy and slutty. I’ve been having vaginal sex since I was 17 but it’s nothing like anal, it’s sort of just boring, if I’m being honest. I’ve been doing anal a long time too, but it hasn’t gotten old the same way even as I’ve started doing it more often. My husband really likes my ass, and I think he’d jump at the chance to go anal only, so I’m going to ask him tonight to try it for a while.

It’s amazing to me just how many women have the same revelation at some point, often after years of loving and preferring anal but still not making it their priority because vaginal is “normal” and “expected” even if it’s boring and anal is what they really want. Congratulations on deciding to break that cycle and not just make anal your priority but to go anal only. I’ve no doubt that he’ll be all for it, given what you’ve said. Good luck, you’re going to love being anal only.

Anonymous: I’m currently dating 4 girls. They’re not anal only, but they can take a cock in the ass. This November I’m just fucking asses. As I only see each of them about once a month, I won’t mention No Pussy November, and don’t care wether they’re using their clit at home. What matters is that I’ll be free of the pussy.

That’s not a bad way to celebrate No Pussy November, but maybe they’d like to try going anal only as well. Why not tell them that you’re taking part in it for the month and encourage them to try it too beyond just with you if they’re interested? You never know, you might turn them on to to the anal only lifestyle with it.

I have recently discovered i LOVE anal never thought i would! super proud of myself lol!  BUT i think im overwhelming my husband as he does love it but he does not LOVE it like i do.( I take it or im receiving? im sorry i dont know the lingo yet! he does not and is not into that, no judgment this is just us!) Anyway I dont want him to feel forced to have more sex but sex 3x a week isnt enough for me! we start with bjs he doesnt finish, then move to vaginal, then the beloved anal until we cum. its beautiful.He does work a physically demanding job during the week so i know he is tired and i do take that into account! But any help or tips would be appreciated!! I would probably be anal only if he would be into it but i dont think he is. I made this tumblr just for this question! I have been stalking this blog for a month now at first i was surprised,  i thought ,like really anal only how could that be. But after the purchase of my first awesome training plugs and some different positions ive just fallen in love with it. I just feel alone and a little weird but then i find all these beautiful people who love it to, i just have no one who relates irl i suppose…Thank you for having this blog and everyone flowing it!! and  just allowing me to feel less alone!

I’m glad you were able to discover how much you love anal and that you’d like to go anal only, as well as discovering this community. (Don’t forget to check out the forum and Discord chat as well!)

Have you talked with your husband about it? Tell him that you really love and prefer anal and you’d like to try just skipping your pussy and start going straight to anal. No Pussy November, our annual month-long anal only challenge, is coming up soon, and is a good opportunity for people to experiment with going anal only without an up-front long-term commitment. You just give up all vaginal sex for a month and do anal as much as you can, and then at the end of the month reassess and if you’re still loving it, then commit to going anal only indefinitely. Perhaps you could try that with him?

If the frequency isn’t enough, masturbate your ass and wear plugs when you aren’t having sex. You can start by going anal only in your solo play, never masturbating vaginally and only playing with your ass, and then working to get to that same point with your husband.

Communication is important, though, and you should have an honest discussion with him about how much better anal is for you and that you want to try going anal only with him, at least for a while to start out.

Good luck!

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multitrack-mind: Thank you so much! He really likes it too, just I guess not as much as me haha. I am so excited for anal only November. We decided just yesterday so we aren’t going to do anything until nov. 1! I’m going to start more solo play for now! Thank you so much for you’re advice I will try and convince after November maybe he just needs more examples of why it’s the best!

To which the following response was made:

If he’s already agreed to try No Pussy November, I’m sure that month of anal only will help show him why pussy is unnecessary and anal is best, and it will no doubt be easier to convince him to stay anal only after then.

Anonymous: My fiance and I decided we’re going to do No Pussy November, but with a twist! We’re getting married on November 1st so our wedding night and our honeymoon and the rest of the month that follows is going to be anal only. We both really love anal and already do it most of the time, so I think it will make it even more special.

What a great idea and coincidence for it to work out that way! I’m sure, like you say, it will make your wedding night and honeymoon even more special by adding an anal only pledge to it.

I hope that by the end of No Pussy November you’ll consider making it a long-term commitment and decide to keep it an anal only marriage rather than just a way to start things off for the first month. If you both prefer anal already, and are excited by the idea of going anal only to the point of wanting to begin your marriage that way, why not keep it going so long as you’re both enjoying it by the end of the month? Outside of getting pregnant, just keep things anal only.

Anonymous: My wife and I are going to do No Pussy November this year. We’ve always liked anal, and I asked her when I saw your announcement if she wanted to try it and she immediately said yes! So I think we’re both going to like November a lot. Thank you for the idea.

You’re welcome, and congratulations. It sounds like she already prefers anal and was excited enough by this idea that she jumped on it when you brought it up. Based on that reaction, by the end of the month I’d be surprised if she wants to go back to vaginal at all.

Announcing this year’s upcoming No Pussy November challenge! One of the best ways to experience the realities and benefits of the anal only lifestyle is to challenge yourself to go anal only without any vaginal sex for an entire month. It’s enough time to immerse yourself in the lifestyle and work past any early difficulties, without being a scary up-front commitment to dive straight into long-term anal only. Countless anal only couples and individuals got their start with No Pussy November or with a similar month-long challenge.

The rules are simple: from November 1 to 30, you will not engage in vaginal intercourse. Any further restrictions beyond that are up to you—whether you include clitoral stimulation, for example, depends on your own preferences and needs. Many choose not to in the hopes of achieving pure anal only pleasure and orgasms, others prefer the combination of anal and clit stimulation.

For those of us already anal only, there’s no need to feel left out: if there’s some new twist on the anal only lifestyle that you are curious to try, this is the perfect opportunity to explore it! Consider adding clitoral denial, ass to mouth, wider or deeper anal stretching, double anal, long term plug wear, orgasm denial, physical chastity, anal only tattoos (whether temporary or permanent), clit numbing, or anything else that might interest you into the mix as your personal challenge for the month.

So, get your ideas ready and start talking to your partner to get them on board! If you’re single, you can still participate as well—when masturbating, keep it strictly anal only, and when hooking up, just tell them that you’re participating in No Pussy November and are only doing anal and oral. Don’t forget to share your plans and ideas with us.

Questions and requests for advice are also always welcome at any time.

It’s been a great summer and now many months since I first came to you.

No, we are not anal only yet, but I can see it as possible one day. It could happen any day or be a few years off but I feel very positive about our chances.

But when I compare where we were to where we are now, I wouldn’t have believed the progress if you had asked me at the start of the year.

Sure I’d prefer not to be doing her pussy at all, but for all the anal we have now it’s a small price to pay, so the advice I’d continue to give all your followers here is to BE PATIENT. Give her time and space to find her own preferences and she will.

Sex continues to be fantastic and I believe she loves all the anal fun we have as much as I do. Like I said before I don’t make any demands so she’s much more willing and as a benefit always relaxed about it. I can’t stress how much difference that’s making to her enjoyment, comfort and how long or often we have sex.

She’s still hanging on to some vaginal out of habit I guess and I’m ok with that. I know everybody is different but this has worked for us. Some might be uncomfortable even with minimal vaginal but I think it’s important to keep in mind the long term goal.

I’ll continue to submit more in the future so you know where we are at.

Thank you for following up, that’s great to hear! Maybe during one of the upcoming anal only challenge months—No Pussy November or Anal Only April—you could see if she’d be willing to try exploring just anal for a month and see how she feels about vaginal after that. Many who try anal only for a month or two lose any hesitations they had about the idea before that and want to commit to it full time after.

Anonymous: It would be my dream to do only anal with my (soon to be) wife. We’ve been together 6 years and I feel like I’m done with vag sex. We do have anal and it’s perfect, but I’d be much happier with 100% anal and I know she could too. What I can’t get over is she enjoys it but even when I try suggesting a trial period (as you recommend) she says that people aren’t meant to do anal all the time. I’m stuck and out of ideas. What can I do or say to change her mind so she sees this as a good thing?

Talk with her more about it. Ask her why she thinks people aren’t meant to do anal all the time. Presumably she either gets sore afterwards due to the infrequency of the anal she receives, or she’s worried about various myths and misconceptions that spread fear of injury or long term damage from frequent anal sex.

If she gets sore, doing it more often will help with that, as will more warmup and butt plug wear before sex and on days you don’t do anal.

If she’s worried about damage or injury, that has more to do with not being warmed up enough or not using proper technique. Experienced people can have anal sex every day for all their life and never have any health issues as a result.

There are couples out there who have been anal only together for decades and there’s no issue. It’s very much possible, and I would argue people are meant to do anal all the time, because it’s so much more natural and pleasurable for everyone.

Feel free to follow up once you have more of an understanding of her hesitations to the idea.

Anonymous: What are the benefits of going anal only? I’m interested, but I wanna know more to see if it’s really for me!

Increased pleasure, increased arousal, increased sexiness, and increased intimacy. It’s also natural birth control.

Why not give it a try for a few months and find out for yourself how you like it? If you’re having a good time after a several month trial period, commit to it then longer term.

Anonymous: First of all I love your blog so much! I’ve always loved anal and have recently realized that I want to live an anal only lifestyle. I am married and my husband understands I love anal and is willing to give it, but if he fingers or fucks me, he always does it in my vagina before my ass. How do I tell him that i don’t just like anal, but that i want to completely reject my vagina as my sexual organ? I think he knows i prefer anal, but not that I wish for it to be my only way to receive pleasure.

Thank you for the kind words.

I’d just start talking with him more about it and telling him what you want and prefer and need. If he fingers your pussy, tell him “I want you to play with my ass instead.” If he fucks your pussy, tell him “put it in my ass”. You don’t have to necessarily frame things in a manner that make him feel bad about doing things you don’t enjoy compared to anal, but telling him how much more you prefer anal and that you want to just do anal and oral all the time and how good it is when he plays with and fucks your ass can help to make it clear. You can also ask him to try going anal only for a month with you and see how you both like it. No Pussy November 2018, our annual fall anal only challenge month, is just a few months away!