Anonymous: Hi! I’ve followed you for a long time and me and my husband have been anal only 3 years now. We’ve had children, don’t want more, and both agree my pussy has served its purpose. We’re very happy and plan to stay this way for good. More recently though my friends were talking about anal, some liked it, some were scared, so I said I loved it and that we were anal only. They were all really curious so I gave them some tips and told them to try anal and AO. Two are going to try AO for August. Yay!!

That’s excellent! Thanks for sharing, especially at such an opportune time—not just because it’s Anal Only August right now and a perfect time to encourage others to go anal only for a month, but because I’ve actually been hearing from a lot of women lately about the topic of getting their friends to go AO too, often with good success.

This is something I think is really important, actually. There’s a lot of bad and wrong information out there about anal, and so many women get turned off it because of things they read or heard from friends, or because of bad experiences with inexperienced partners. So if you’re a woman who loves anal or is anal only, sharing that fact with your friends when anal comes up as a topic (or just sex in general) can really help them by balancing out that negativity that spreads out of ignorance and let them know that actually, anal feels really fucking good when done right, and that women can love it just as much, if not far more than men, and that you love it so much that you stopped using your pussy entirely for sex and have gone anal only for good.

Beyond just that, encouraging them to try—anal for those who haven’t done it before, or have had bad experiences; anal only for those who already like anal—can be really powerful. A lot of women get really curious about AO after hearing about it, but don’t always take the step to actually try it. Encourage them to do so, to spend a month AO either by themselves or with a partner, and that they can rely on you for advice and guidance and encouragement, and that they’re going to love it. Share your own experiences with it and how after the first month or two it was so good you had no desire to go back to boring vaginal sex, and the like.

Together, we can bring more people into the anal only lifestyle and help them to discover the pure pleasure that is anal only.

Also, it sounds like you and your husband have a lovely life together and were very lucky to mutually decide your pussy had no purpose anymore and should be abandoned. Thank you for sharing!

It’s the first weekend of Anal Only August 2017! If you are participating, now’s a good time to update everyone with how things have been going so far. Have you been having a good time? Any difficulties or challenges? Temptations to return to vaginal? Keep us informed, and we can help with advice and encouragement.

If you haven’t joined in, there’s still time—you can go anal only at any point and just extend the time so it’s still a month-long challenge for you. For more information, see the original Anal Only August post.

Anonymous: Thanks for posting about Anal Only August! I showed it to my wife and she agreed we can go anal only for a month to try and hopefully longer if it works out. We’re going to also try ignoring her clit for the month. Wish us luck!

Congrats! She sounds like a keeper. I’m sure you’ll both have a great time and if other’s experiences with month-long anal only challenges are any indication, there’s a good chance you’ll both end up staying anal only full time by the end of the month.

Keep us posted!

The time of the year for anal only challenges is upon us. While No Pussy November is our primary annual event, there are those who also enjoy celebrating Anal Only August and so I am announcing a challenge for anyone who would like to participate. It’s quite open-ended and anything related to anal only will qualify you to participate.

Possible goals for the month of August include: experimenting with a month of anal only if you aren’t currently anal only (either solo or with a partner), going a month of pure anal only without clitoral stimulation if you already are anal only and want to step things up, incorporating ass to mouth into your everyday routine if you don’t already do it, working up to 24/7 butt plug wear, or any other ideas you may have!

Feel free to share your goals and experiences with us here or on the forum in the Anal Only August 2017 thread.

Anonymous: Me and my girlfriend have been having anal sex for about six months. And it’s usually about half of the times we have sex is anal and the other half is vaginal she says she enjoys anal a lot but not as much as vaginal…. I’ve recently spoken to her about my interest in going exclusively anal only and she said she’s willing to try so we’re going anal only for the next month to see how she likes it… wish us luck!

Congratulations and good luck! Do everything you can to make it as enjoyable for her as you can over the course of the month—including talking with her about what during anal makes it most enjoyable for her. See if you can’t help get her to where she enjoys anal just as much if not more than vaginal.

roughanalfreak15: We’ve been anal only for the past week and it’s been fantastic. We try and have anal sex at least twice a day, and each time we both have explosive orgasms together!!!

piggy-cunt: Tomorrow, June 21st 2017, it is my birthday. I am turning 26 years old and I am a pretty useless cunt all around. I am unowned, fat, and I have no self control when it comes to anything, especially edging- I always go over the edge. I have thought about going anal-only for a long time, but never really had the motivation to make the decision myself. I am thinking, now, that if I can have discipline in this endeavor I might be able to stick to some other rules too.

So, I want to do an experiment. For every note this post gets I will not touch my cunt for pleasure for a full 24 hours, starting at midnight on my 26th birthday. Hopefully this will get lots of notes and my anal-only period will last a long time. Maybe it won’t get a lot of notes and it will be short. Who knows, it is now up to fate and the internet.

The original version of this post on Tumblr got 351 notes.

reeceolivers: I’m married & frequently on here. I truly appreciate your tips. Finally got the nerve to ask him to try anal only for a month. He acted like I took his favorite dessert off the menu. All of a sudden I felt ashamed like I did something wrong. We didn’t talk for days. He apologized & we’re back to talking & sex again infrequently b/c I don’t have much desire for it since. I can’t hold out completely b/c our marriage suffers when we aren’t intimate. Any advice for feeling resentful and deprived?

I’m sorry to hear that triggered a negative reaction from your partner. It can certainly be challenging when one person wants anal only and the other does not. Unless he is willing to give it a try occasionally (maybe for shorter periods of time than a month?), you may have to compromise. Instead of anal only, try for just having anal sex a bit more frequently, and be anal only in all your solo play. Over time, you can try to ramp up the anal more frequently together, and see if you end up there together naturally rather than abruptly switching to AO.

I wish you luck in coming up with a mutually acceptable solution to your desires.

Anonymous: Hi, this is the girl who hated your blog again. I came back and read your response and have been going through your blog for a while. I thought about it and you’re right that I can enjoy anal on its own, so maybe it isn’t right to think of my pussy and clit as the core of female sexuality, that’s just how I’ve always thought of them and I think most women do. But maybe that’s too limiting? Anyway, I’m going to try only having anal for a week and see what I think when it’s my choice. Thanks.

I’m surprised, most people who attack my blog disappear and don’t come back when I respond. I’m glad that you decided to take a closer look and consider it from a different perspective. I’m also glad that my interpretation seems to have been correct and anal only might actually be something you like trying if you look at it from a different perspective instead of seeing it as something you’ve been forced into doing. Since you say you really enjoy anal, you’ll probably have a good time if you consider it a personal challenge, a fun experiment, a sexy secret about yourself. Good luck. I hope you end up changing your mind on anal only and maybe even embrace it for yourself.

loveletterstomister: It’s been seven weeks since I last had an orgasm. Almost 100% sure that needs to happen like yesterday

pussysucks: Don’t be silly, you can keep going without. You don’t need to cum. You don’t need your cunt or your clit. You just need to keep plugging and fucking your ass instead, and get the pleasure and satisfaction from that, which orgasms won’t give you.

jennyfuckface: I don’t know if I would have the strength to go anal only though the idea makes me wet.

If you like the idea and are turned on by it, then you owe it to yourself to try. Recognize that if you’re trying it for the first time, you may not last long before going back to your old ways, but also recognize that that can be a normal part of the process and when you do so, don’t take it too hard—just pick up where you left off and try to go longer anal only the next time.

It’s easy to start on your own. Just stop masturbating with your pussy or clit, and masturbate anal only.