cutelittlefuckpig: Okay, starting tomorrow any and all masturbating must involve ass fucking for the next week?

Anonymous: Last night I got my S.O. to agree to a week of anal only! I’m so excited, but I’m worried running off to clean myself every time he puts the moves on me is going to ruin the mood! I need some advice.

Congratulations!

If you have a fairly consistent time during which you often have sex (e.g. evenings) you can clean yourself in advance just to be prepared.

If you have and use a butt plug, you can put it in before possible sex time, both to warm you up and prepare you, and to help clean you out. Having a plug in can move things along, as it were, as well as provide you an opportunity to check how clean you are.

Not everyone is comfortable with just this, but if you have a balanced diet with a good amount of fiber, you’re generally going to be pretty clean anyway and can usually get away with just going to the bathroom in advance. But if you want to be totally confident that you’re clean, then you may want to do more.

Enjoy!

The original version of this post on Tumblr received the following responses.

meandnooneelse138: Understand that sometimes things can happen. And so what? My wife gives me anal almost anytime I want it. We are not into fecal play at all, but sometimes she does not have a chance to “empty” first. And you know what, it doesn’t matter. It’s still hot. It still feels good. And on the end there was very little mess. We just jumped in the shower and washed off. Of course we have a very comfortable relationship, so that makes a difference.

slutprogrammer: Don’t overdo the fiber, though. It can make things worse.

bellegirl: I convinced my husband to go anal only. It’s just for the month of January, but it’s a start. I am absolutely loving it. I only hope he’ll learn to love it as much as I do.

Congratulations, that’s wonderful! I’m glad you’re enjoying it, and I hope he’ll see how much you love it and want to keep going with it too. If he doesn’t, though, you can always try for another month of it at a later time, and keep slowly working towards doing it more often.

NPNWife: Been awhile since I checked in! We decided to continue going anal only for the rest of 2016. And after having a couple really deep, intense conversations about it, we decided to make our New Years Resolution to be 100% anal only—no vaginal anything, no clit touching, no orgasms for me unless I can have them anally—for all of 2017. My husband was in my ass when the ball dropped and he’s been in me 3 times since. It feels liberating giving up my pussy/clit for him this way.

Congratulations, sounds like an excellent choice for the both of you. A few months ago when you were just going to do anal for the first time as your anniversary gift to your husband, could you have imagined that this is where you’d be now?

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Anonymous: Anal Only September girl here again, this time with super happy news! I’m going to get ass”raped” by my Dom on Sunday and I’m sssssooooooo excited for it!!!!! Moral of the story every girl should do an anal only month 🙂

Congratulations, have fun! It’s not clear from what you’ve said if you ended up staying anal only after your trial month, or if you’ve returned to a mix but find yourself craving and enjoying anal more after doing it exclusively for a month.

Either way, I agree, every girl (and couple) should try at least a month of anal only. Many find they love it as a result, often after never even really considering it before that.

My wife and I have been married for seven and a half years.  We’ve had anal sex almost from the beginning of our sexual relationship and have been anal only for about four years now.  It wasn’t like it was our goal or anything, it just sort of happened that anal sex became more and more the focus of our lovemaking.  We kind of came to the realization together that we both preferred anal and decided vaginal sex held nothing for us.  It was actually my wife that stumbled upon your blog.  Until then we often wondered if there were other couples out there like us.

Since abandoning vaginal sex, my wife continued using a vibrator on her clit, but nothing in her vagina.  It really hadn’t bothered me much.  But, it seemed like it often interfered with our lovemaking.  Either it wouldn’t be positioned right, or it was difficult to perform certain positions with her having to keep the vibrator on her clit.   Some time ago I became intrigued by all the posts regarding no clit stimulation.  When I mentioned it to her several months ago she was resistant to the idea.  She didn’t seem to think she could have an orgasm without clit stimulation.

When someone mentioned the idea of “No Diddle December” at the Anal Only Lifestyle forum I decided to ask her again.  This time I asked if she would do it for the month of December as my Christmas present.  I told her that she only had to do it this month and that I would not ask her again if she still didn’t like it.  As I suspected, my wife said she didn’t think she could have an orgasm without stimulating her clit.  Thankfully she has a good attitude and agreed to try it with an open mind.

The first couple of times we had sex she was unable to get into it and let me finish.  She said it wasn’t unpleasant or anything, just that she couldn’t get turned on.  I was discouraged to say the least, as was she.  The next time we had sex she began to get turned on but was unable to orgasm.  She seemed really frustrated.  I told her she could use her vibe if she really wanted to because I didn’t want to see her frustrated like that.  To her credit she said she had agreed not to stimulate herself this month and was going to stick to it.  We went to bed right after.

A couple of hours later, I awoke to her sucking my cock.  She rarely wakes horny like that. As soon as I was hard, she sat on top of me cowgirl.  Within a minute she was grinding back and forth with my cock buried balls deep in her ass.  When this went on for several minutes I thought she would get frustrated, as she usually cums pretty quickly.  When I asked if she wanted her vibe she didn’t say a word but moved my hand not to her clit, but to her breasts.  When I did I felt her ass begin to contract and sort of pulsate like it does at orgasm.  When I looked up at her, her head was back and her eyes had sort of rolled back like she was in a trance.  She generally orgasms very quickly and is done.  As I had just had an orgasm a couple hours earlier, I wasn’t ready yet.  This was fortunate, as her trance like state continued for several minutes with her grinding back and forth on my cock and her ass pulsating until I couldn’t wait any longer.  As I began to cum, my wife, who is normally quiet during sex, began saying “Oh god, oh god, oh god.”  Then she let out a single load moan and passed out, falling backward on the bed with my cock still in her ass.  I could feel her ass continue to involuntarily pulsate as my cock began to soften.

I would have to guess my wife lay this way for nearly a minute before coming to.  When she did, all she could say was “Oh my god.  That was the best orgasm I’ve ever had. I think I passed out.”  When I asked her if she had rubbed her clit she said “No.  And let me tell you, if I can have an orgasm like this I may never touch my clit again.”

She had never experienced an orgasm like this before.  She said she her orgasm had started when I began fondling her breasts and didn’t end until she passed out.  Neither of us ever would have thought that stimulating her clit was actually keeping her from experiencing the best possible orgasm.  She has since described it as being on a whole different level.  She said that she hadn’t realized that her orgasms had been centered on her clit even though we were having anal sex, and described it as a whole body orgasm, like her entire body was part of it, not just her genitals.

Thank you to whoever suggested “No Diddle December”.  If you are an “anal only” couple who is still stimulating her clit or vagina in some way, I can’t recommend enough at least trying to avoid this for a time and see if you don’t find she can not only orgasm from anal only but have an orgasm on an entirely different plane.

Anonymous: The lucky married anon here. Sex twice in December and still anal only. It’ll be up to her when we go back to “normal” sex. We’re still doing vaginal foreplay even though I think she prefers to be rimmed.

Nice! Hey, maybe she liked No Pussy November so much she wants to just keep going with it. That’s actually a fairly common outcome. But even if not, at least you had a wonderful time with it!

Anonymous: When I told my wife about No Pussy November she laughed and said no. Then she proceeded to have me go straight to her ass the next time we had sex, and then the time after that. The third time we had sex in November I just went straight up her ass. Three weeks in after having nothing but anal sex two or three times a week I asked if we were doing no pussy she just smiled. Last week I went to put it in her pussy and she said the month wasn’t over yet. She’s even done ass to mouth.

That’s great! You’re lucky to have such a wonderful wife. Have you talked at all about why she changed her mind about it? How have the two of you enjoyed it? And now that November is over, is everything back to how it had been before?

Oh, the disappointment. The end of No Pussy November 2016 is near and we’ll have to wait another whole year for the next one! But don’t despair too much, even if you missed out this year, that doesn’t mean you can’t still participate—after all, while No Pussy November as a yearly event is what’s widely promoted here to encourage new people to try anal only for the first time, the reality is that every month is anal only month! It’s the idea of a month-long challenge that’s most important, and you can try that any time you want. Pick a date, and challenge yourself to go anal only for a month from that date. That’s all it really ever takes to start.

For those who did join on No Pussy November 2016, the end of the month doesn’t mean it has to be the end of the fun. If you had a really good time and feel like you could keep going—do so! Your anal only fun doesn’t have to be limited to this one month, and if the month trial period revealed to you that you really enjoy anal only, just keep on going, riding on your momentum from No Pussy November. And be sure to keep sending in your updates, whether you’re ending the experiment with NPN for now, or continuing anal only from here.

We had wonderful participation this year, possibly the best yet, and I want to thank everyone who took part and gave the anal only lifestyle a shot, whether for the full month and beyond or just for a short time. Here’s to an even better No Pussy November 2017!