starfisk: This year for lent I’m deciding to give up orgasms. I’m not religious and not doing this for religious reasons, I just enjoy an excuse to deny my slutty pussy and I like the idea of giving something up with a clear timeline in mind alongside many other people.

For anyone who doesn’t know, lent starts today on Ash Wednesday and goes until Easter. People say there are 40 days of lent because they’re not counting Sundays, when people wouldn’t fast and would pay penance in other ways. But since I’m giving up orgasms for the entirety of lent, I’m counting every day in my countdowns.

For this challenge, I want to go anal only. It’s something I’ve been interested in trying anyway, and this seems like the perfect time to do it. I’m going to deny my clit and pussy any pleasure and only touch, plug and fuck my ass. I’ve got my ass plugged up right now as I’m writing this and it’s already making me wet, my pussy just starting to soak my panties…I absolutely love thinking about how desperate and mindlessly horny I’m going to be at the end of this.

I’d like to occasionally chronicle my journey through this long denial challenge and share with you my progress into the depths of the true and deep sluttiness you can achieve only by denying yourself pleasure and focusing on that of others ??

mysexlife2017: Personal challenge time!

I am gonna masturbate, however, I am honna try to use only anal toys for a whole hour before I touch my pussy or clit at all. I have almost no self control so wish me luck!

naughtywhore12: Maybe my Valentine’s Day gift to myself will be a month of strictly anal only play and complete pussy denial

Anonymous: My boyfriend and I have been interested into trying a month of anal only to see how it goes and we have been taking it slow to make sure I don’t get hurt and he doesn’t hurt himself either but we have run into an issue. Because of taking it slow he has an issue with staying hard enough (we really haven’t done anal much so he has to be 100% hard to get it in) and then I get turned off bc I feel like it’s my fault any advice?

Only go as slowly as you need to. If you’re fine and it isn’t hurting, you can try to go faster. You don’t need to go slowly just for the sake of going slowly, you should just listen to your body and what it needs, and go slowly when necessary but not when you’re fine. You can also warm up with some solo play and by wearing a butt plug before having sex so you’re more ready from the start.

cutelittlefuckpig: Okay, starting tomorrow any and all masturbating must involve ass fucking for the next week?

Anonymous: Last night I got my S.O. to agree to a week of anal only! I’m so excited, but I’m worried running off to clean myself every time he puts the moves on me is going to ruin the mood! I need some advice.

Congratulations!

If you have a fairly consistent time during which you often have sex (e.g. evenings) you can clean yourself in advance just to be prepared.

If you have and use a butt plug, you can put it in before possible sex time, both to warm you up and prepare you, and to help clean you out. Having a plug in can move things along, as it were, as well as provide you an opportunity to check how clean you are.

Not everyone is comfortable with just this, but if you have a balanced diet with a good amount of fiber, you’re generally going to be pretty clean anyway and can usually get away with just going to the bathroom in advance. But if you want to be totally confident that you’re clean, then you may want to do more.

Enjoy!

The original version of this post on Tumblr received the following responses.

meandnooneelse138: Understand that sometimes things can happen. And so what? My wife gives me anal almost anytime I want it. We are not into fecal play at all, but sometimes she does not have a chance to “empty” first. And you know what, it doesn’t matter. It’s still hot. It still feels good. And on the end there was very little mess. We just jumped in the shower and washed off. Of course we have a very comfortable relationship, so that makes a difference.

slutprogrammer: Don’t overdo the fiber, though. It can make things worse.

bellegirl: I convinced my husband to go anal only. It’s just for the month of January, but it’s a start. I am absolutely loving it. I only hope he’ll learn to love it as much as I do.

Congratulations, that’s wonderful! I’m glad you’re enjoying it, and I hope he’ll see how much you love it and want to keep going with it too. If he doesn’t, though, you can always try for another month of it at a later time, and keep slowly working towards doing it more often.

NPNWife: Been awhile since I checked in! We decided to continue going anal only for the rest of 2016. And after having a couple really deep, intense conversations about it, we decided to make our New Years Resolution to be 100% anal only—no vaginal anything, no clit touching, no orgasms for me unless I can have them anally—for all of 2017. My husband was in my ass when the ball dropped and he’s been in me 3 times since. It feels liberating giving up my pussy/clit for him this way.

Congratulations, sounds like an excellent choice for the both of you. A few months ago when you were just going to do anal for the first time as your anniversary gift to your husband, could you have imagined that this is where you’d be now?

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Anonymous: Anal Only September girl here again, this time with super happy news! I’m going to get ass”raped” by my Dom on Sunday and I’m sssssooooooo excited for it!!!!! Moral of the story every girl should do an anal only month 🙂

Congratulations, have fun! It’s not clear from what you’ve said if you ended up staying anal only after your trial month, or if you’ve returned to a mix but find yourself craving and enjoying anal more after doing it exclusively for a month.

Either way, I agree, every girl (and couple) should try at least a month of anal only. Many find they love it as a result, often after never even really considering it before that.