Anonymous: I joked about having an Anal Only September with my long-distance boyfriend and we ended up actually deciding to try it… now I’m only allowed to touch my clit if I have a toy inside my ass and in two weeks I’m going to go pure anal only with no pussy stimulation whatsoever… I’m really nervous but also super excited… any tips?

Congratulations! A month of anal only is a wonderful way to experience the benefits of an anal only relationship without making a long term commitment up front. I’m sure you’ll love it! I like the idea of incorporating clitoral denial but easing into it over a couple of weeks, and I’d like to hear more about how this goes for you as you transition from being able to use your clit during anal play to going pure anal only.

I would suggest starting out with a higher frequency of clitoral stimulation during your anal play but working towards tapering it off as you approach the two week point where you will abandon it fully, in order to help with that transition rather than it being a sudden removal. Try, during the first two weeks, to get close to orgasm with as little clitoral stimulation as possible, and see if you can continue to push that more and more until you’re only using your clit the absolute bare minimum needed to cum.

Once you do go into the clit denial stage, whenever you feel the urge to touch yourself, rub your ass and your asshole instead. Finger your ass, use toys, do whatever it takes to redirect that urge to touch your clit to your ass instead, until it feels natural to go for your ass instead when you feel aroused. The urge to touch your clit is a habit, and it can be changed.

If you haven’t already, I would suggest joining the Anal Only Lifestyle Forum and creating a thread in our Challenges forum where you can post updates and receive encouragement from other users. Those who have done so find it helpful to maintain momentum towards their goal. Good luck, and enjoy!

anonymousslaveamongstyou: I can’t wait to please daddy ?

distinguishedmentalitydinosaur: So, I have been instructed to fuck myself in the arse for 20 to 30 minutes each day as part of both anal training and denial. Today, whilst completing my daily challenge I had to stop twice as I felt as though I was on the edge of orgasm, even once I had finished my challenge my cunt and arse hole were twitching! I’ve never cum from just anal stimulation and this occurring made me so happy! However, as I’m not allowed to orgasm, I had to pause before I could continue…

This challenge is making me constantly dripping wet and has had me soak through clothing, underwear (when I’m allowed to wear it) and has left me waking up with a wet patch on the sheets, I’m such a desperate horny mess.

anonymousslaveamongstyou: AND HE LOVED THE IDEA!!! Daddy and I met this weekend and he said he was only going to fuck my ass no matter what I said, he fucked it so hard and called me a whore, that I came to America for his cock, I was so turned on and I begged for him to be more rough and he did! I thought I was about to cry, it was amazing. I’m really enjoying anal and daddy’s so happy I’m enjoying it! He said he’ll eat my pussy even more now ????

dazedly-daisy: At the end of May, Sir informed me that as of June 1st, my cunt will be off limits. That means, no touching and absolutely no cumming. Instead, He demanded I go to work everyday plugged with a wider plug. I am allowed to have one anal only orgasm per day. Of course, He keeps His right to either forbid that one orgasm or award me with more, if and when He decides.

Yesterday was day one. I had quite a difficult day at work, but being plugged, feeling my asshole stretched, helped me get through the day.

After I got home, I had one mind-blowing anal orgasm.

Thank You Sir.

Anonymous: I love your blog! My Daddy loves anal sex, and so do I! I want to become his anal-only slut, but I’m a bit shy about suggesting it to him. Any tips on how to broach the subject that I want him to forget all about my pussy and use my asshole only?

You can take the more direct route and ask him if you can try a period together that’s anal only—a weekend, a week, a month, whatever seems best to you. After, if it’s been successful and you both had fun, ask if he’d like to just keep going like that because it’s what you prefer now.

If you want to approach it more gradually, you can just start to ask for anal more often until it’s what you’re naturally having most of the time, then after a while where you’ve been virtually anal only just because it’s what you’ve primarily been doing, you can talk to him about making it official.

Either way, you can start immediately by becoming anal only for any solo play/masturbation you do.

Anonymous: it’s march 24 and i haven’t had anything in my pussy since january 27, and it’s only been touched for lube. i can’t take it anymore, i need something in my pussy, but starting april 1 i’m going to see how long i can go! this current streak wasn’t even intentional, it just happened, so i want to see how it goes when i try.

Congratulations on making it this far. Do you think you would be able to hold out longer if you played with your clit along with anal? If that’s the factor you need to stay anal only, I think it’s fair to include that as long as it’s combined with anal penetration at the same time.

I usually don’t encourage stopping after a long streak and trying to start again later, as it might be harder to do so, but that’s not always the case, and for some people they find an occasional break now and then drives them to try for longer the next time, and through a cycle of alternating back and forth can be beneficial. Either way, I wish you luck on trying to intentionally go anal only April 1!

Anonymous: My little secret: On new years eve my bf and me decided to be anal-only for a while. 18 days in, we still haven’t switched to pussy fucking

couplelovesfucking: Wow, great! Thanks for sharing. Thats one thing we want to try too, seems very arousing. :3 ♥

Anonymous: Hey. I’m a girl and I’m not really interested in going anal only. I actually do enjoy vaginal/clitoral masturbation. However, I would say that the orgasm (Clitoral orgasm) is heightened dramatically by anal stimulation. I’d have to say clitoral + anal = bliss. I prefer it over clitoral alone. What are your thoughts on that?

Clitoral + anal tends to be the most pleasurable combination involving the clitoris for most women. I highly recommend it, especially when someone is first experimenting with anal, but it’s great for anyone and everyone. Many people combine clitoral stimulation with anal penetration and consider themselves anal only, for what it’s worth. Clitoral denial is an additional step beyond that which some people experiment with, but it certainly isn’t an essential step to being in the “anal only club”, as it were.

If you have no interest in being anal only, then don’t be. You can totally enjoy vaginal sex as well as anal. Do what you enjoy. If you do enjoy anal, though, and find anal + clit stim the most pleasurable sexual experience, I do suggest experimenting with a month or more of anal only just to give it a shot. Even if it isn’t something you want to do all the time, it can be fun to do every now and then for a while.

Anonymous: I just wanted to say thank you. My GF and I tried no pussy november, wow did she like it. Anal was always her “favorite” thing, and one month of only anal has spoiled her so much she doesn’t want to go back. She’s just legitimately confused why her anal orgasms are so much more intense and satisfying after she gave up the idea of vaginal. Needless to say she is sold, we’re not going back to pussy ever.

Congratulations! It sounds like anal only is what was always best for her, she just needed to come to that realization, and after doing so and knowing she doesn’t need to keep doing something she finds less enjoyable and satisfying, she’s able to enjoy the anal even more and finds it more physically satisfying as a result. In a more general sense, though, it’s extremely common for women to find anal orgasms far more powerful than vaginal.