Category: Anal Only Challenge

One of the best ways to get into the anal only lifestyle is to try it for an extended period of time. We recommend trying it for a whole month, as it gives you enough time to adjust to the routine and work out the kinks, but some people start just doing it one day a week, or for a weekend, then expand it to one week a month, and slowly work their way up to being anal only for a whole month or more before committing to it long-term.

For our official Anal Only challenges, see the Anal Only April and No Pussy November categories.


No Pussy November 2015

This November Experience A Month of Exclusive Anal Sex - Join Us In The Third Annual No Pussy November

No Pussy November is here! Anyone who enjoys anal and is interested in any level by the idea of going anal only is encouraged to give it a shot this month. While going the whole month without using your pussy is recommended, that may not interest everyone for their initial attempt, and you can certainly try it for a shorter amount of time as well.

For the many people who are already anal only, try incorporating a new challenge to make things interesting. A few options include 24/7 butt plug wear, zero clitoral stimulation and/or orgasms for the month, or (credit to @dumbandpretty here) only allowing yourself ruined orgasms.

Most importantly, have fun with it and use the time to explore your anal sexuality, either on your own or with a partner. Many people who have eventually gone anal only have made the decision to after going for a solid period of time like a month, then realizing they don’t really miss vaginal sex and prefer anal.

Enjoy the buttsex, and be sure to share your stories and progress throughout the month!

Message: How To Be A Better Anal Slut?

Anonymous: My bf loves to fuck my pussy. Should I anally service him more? Should I just beg for anal every time we have sex? Should I beg him to try my ass only for a fortnight? Please tell me how to be a better anal slut and help him appreciate my ass more.

Let him know that you’d enjoy having more anal. Communication is always a good start. You can suggest trying No Pussy November (coming up in just a week) with him. Wear butt plugs around him and when you have sex so he knows you like having something in your ass. Helping others appreciate the joys of the anal only lifestyle is a very positive thing!

No Pussy November 2015 Is Nearly Here

This November Experience A Month of Exclusive Anal Sex - Join Us In The Third Annual No Pussy November

It’s nearly that time of year again, so start making plans! If you already enjoy anal and going anal only is something you’ve thought sounded interesting but haven’t tried yet, this is the perfect opportunity to give it a one month trial run and see how it goes before making any bigger decision about it.

Those who are already anal only could choose some other variation on it, such as going the month without clitoral stimulation, or only edging clitorally with no orgasms unless they come from anal.

Those who do not yet have experience with anal can take the opportunity to train and practice over the course of the month with fingers and toys, working up in size until you’re ready for anal sex.

As always, feel free to ask any questions along the way or share your plans and progress!

The Commitment of Anal Only

Anonymous: What’s your take on going “ANAL ONLY”. Would you do it? would you recommend it? I’ve been considering it.

mysexualhaven: Hmm, it’s such a commitment.

Alright, if you asked me about a month ago, I would’ve said yes without hesitation. I have been having regular Anal sex since May this year, and the more I had it, the more I wanted it. By early August, I was having it every chance I had, and if my boyfriend or I were away (either me traveling or him), I would play with my toys. Back then, I was considering Anal only.

BUT, I am sure you are aware, I was down in the dumps for a little over a month, during that time, my libido was practically gone, if I did have sex, it would almost always be a quickie and Anal was the last thing I wanted. Even now, I am getting a bit of anal hunger back and playing with toys, but I still haven’t had anal sex. I am getting there though. It’s a process and it has to feel right. It’s also very psychological.

Having been through this, I honestly don’t see myself going Anal only. You can’t account for your moods and feelings, and let’s face it, there are days, when you don’t even want to be touched. Let alone have someone fucking your ass.

Keep in mind, that everyone is different. These are just my views and feelings. There are a lot of girls who are practicing anal only, and a little part of me wants it, but the realistic part of me almost always wins. Check out this account and read some of the questions. This guy has discussed Anal only on his blog and has some great advice. @analsexonly

I hope you find your resolution. Do let me know if you ever decide to do it. I’d be interested to share it here with everyone.

Good luck xo

PS: sorry it took me forever to answer this

I generally encourage anyone who enjoys anal to try going anal only for at least a month, just to see what it’s like for themselves. But not everyone wants to go anal only, even if they love anal. That’s fine. If you like the idea, give it a try. If you don’t, don’t. If you are anal only for a while and love it but then want to stop, do so. If you try it and it feels exactly right and you want to stay that way forever, great. It really shouldn’t feel like a commitment, it should be something fun that you do because it’s what you want to do and because it’s rewarding to you.

Spending a Month Anal Only

masterlionsblog: That’s good, nothing this month yet.. You should try going the entire month of October as an anal only slut. Makes good practice. Midnight of Halloween, you can use your cunt.

storyofluella: Oh this sounds like a lot of fun!

While I’m certainly not going to suggest you don’t spend October anal only, the following month is officially (the third annual!) No Pussy November, which will start getting more announced later this month. It’s always a great opportunity for people to start experimenting with anal only if they’re interested but haven’t tried yet, or for those with some experience to give it another shot or put another twist on it like going the month without using their clit as well.

While for many, a month of anal only may be something fun to try before returning to “normal”, a number of couples have come out of No Pussy November deciding that they liked it so much they aren’t going to go back to vaginal sex, and many of those are still anal only today. It really is amazing how for so many women it can only take a month or so of being anal only for her to decide that she prefers being that way and would rather not use her pussy anymore.

So for anyone interested in trying, start thinking about preparing for the next No Pussy November, coming up in less than one month now!

Message: Trying Again

Anonymous: Hello! So anal only August was a bit of a fail for me and my Master… We both got very busy so I didn’t achieve the gape we were both aiming for by the end of the month 🙁 but I am determined to try again! I am currently sitting here plugged with no intention of taking it out until bed time 🙂 if I stay committed, I can achieve the gape we BOTH want!!!

Glad to hear you’re sticking with it. It’s a process, and it’s not at all uncommon to drop it and come back later to try again.

Message: Thank You For Inspiring Me to Go Anal Only

Anonymous: I am going anal only for August and I just wanted to thank you for this page, it help keeps me on track. I have always loved anal but would never have gone anal only, even for just a month, without the help of this page. I am still training my ass with plugs and toys at the moment, as I don’t have a partner, but am hoping I have a well trained hole soon 😀 Keep up the work and thank you for keeping me going. K x

You’re quite welcome, and thanks for sharing. I’m glad I was able to inspire you to give it a try. Good luck, and feel free to send updates at any point if you would like to!

Message: Finally Had Anal After A Long Spell

Anonymous: Hi, I was the anon with 2 questions earlier today! Just wanted to say that I already started using your advice, and my Master and I finally had anal after a long spell. We decided to do anal only for the month, and I’m so excited!!! I can’t wait to have a nice gape and please him with just my ass and mouth &<3 Thank you for your help!!!

Excellent, I’m so glad to hear it. Good luck, and please keep us updated as the month progresses if you feel like continuing to share.