Category: Anal Only Challenge

One of the best ways to get into the anal only lifestyle is to try it for an extended period of time. We recommend trying it for a whole month, as it gives you enough time to adjust to the routine and work out the kinks, but some people start just doing it one day a week, or for a weekend, then expand it to one week a month, and slowly work their way up to being anal only for a whole month or more before committing to it long-term.

For our official Anal Only challenges, see the Anal Only April and No Pussy November categories.


Message: Want to Try No Pussy November but Not Sure Where to Begin

miceandorratz: Hi! Know you’re on hiatus so feel free to answer whenever.

I found this blog a while ago and when I found out about No Pussy November I got really excited to finally start exploring anal stuff, especially now that I have friends (and probably more importantly the finances) to support me.

I’m not exactly sure what to do to start, though? I know November is a while’s off when I send this ask, but if I wanna buy any sex toys for the month I wanna do it beforehand. There’s no “anal training regimine” out there (I get it’s because I should go at the pace I feel comfortable with, but I wish there was something out there giving me a little more direction) so I’m not sure if I should get an anal training kit or just a lotta lube or what. Even between anal training kits I’m not sure what material to get it made outta!!

If you have any advice on what to do I’d appreciate it, all I really know that silicone lube is the preferred anal lube iirc. Any idea on if and what sex toys to bother with, general idea of how long to play with yourself, etc would be really appreciated. I don’t even have preference on price I’d just appreciate some direction.

Thanks for reading, hope things get easier for you! I’ve admired this blog for a while and stuff.

Glad to hear that you’re interested in anal and trying No Pussy November!

I suggest starting with lube and fingers and then getting a butt plug and dildo to try further from there. If you haven’t read our Guide, give it a look—it has a lot of advice on these topics.

Ultimately, though, the motivation and desire to get started is more important than exactly what you use. Most things will work, some better than others, and sticking with it and working on training your ass and ignoring your pussy are what will bring you success in the anal only lifestyle above all else.

Talk to Your Friends About Anal Only

Are you someone who enjoys anal sex and the anal only lifestyle and practices it yourself in your personal life? Has going anal only changed your life for the better and made your sex life more rewarding and fulfilling?

Why not talk about it with your friends as well and encourage them to try it too? If they haven’t tried anal yet, give them advice on how to do it properly. If they enjoy anal regularly but also do vaginal, have them try a month of anal only to start learning why it’s better to be anal only rather than just doing anal along with vaginal.

In the end, you’ll not only help others discover the joys and benefits of anal only, you’ll have a group of friends who can all support each other in your collective anal only life.

Anal Only April 2021 Is Over

Craving something new? Why not go anal only for a whole month? Challenge yourself to Anal Only April.

It’s always a sad day when one of our anal only challenge months ends, because they can tend to be a whirlwind of fun activity as everyone gets involved and builds off each other’s enthusiasm for sexual exploration and the anal only lifestyle to all support and encourage each other to go anal only together, but it’s also a time for celebration for all those who made it through a month of anal only and came out the other side no doubt improved in various ways.

If you’ve stayed anal only all month and found yourself really enjoying it and not especially missing vaginal sex, don’t let this be the end. Keep the streak going, see how far you make it, or even just commit to long term anal only if you feel that’s what you now want. If a month of anal only feels great, think of how amazing two or three months, six months, or a year and beyond will feel! It just keeps getting better.

If you are just discovering this now, or haven’t have a chance to try it yet, it’s not too late to get started! You can start your own month-long anal only challenge at any time!

Don’t forget to check in with us now that the month is over and let us know how your Anal Only April went, what your experiences were, what you learned, and whether you plan on continuing with long-term anal only going forward!

Message: I Already Only Want Anal

Anonymous: Well, it’s official, Anal Only April isn’t even over and I’m already feeling like I only want to do anal and not do vaginal anymore. I saw your and other posts saying that would happen but I didn’t really believe it, I’ve always liked getting my pussy fucked too, but it’s like this past week something changed and I lost interest in my pussy and really want to stay anal only now! I don’t even understand it but I honestly kind of love it.

That’s pretty common and normal! Vaginal urges stick around for a while like a bad habit but over time as you transition into anal only, your desire to have anything to do with your pussy goes away really quickly. Stick with it, resist any short term urges, and you’ll happily stay anal only for good!

Forum: Anal Only April!

Our first of two of our favorite times of the year is almost upon us! For my wife & I April means her pussy is still in play. I can lick it and play with her clit, but no penetration of ANY kind. Nothing, my penis, toys, fingers, even my tongue are all out. The inside of her vagina is out of bounds. Unlike November, when her pussy is completely out of bounds.

Just over a year ago we had seriously thought about going A.O.A (Anal only April) style all year round. While my wife found the idea to be super kinky. She decided that she wasn’t ready give up on her vagina completely.

As things stand now. Three out of four times we have A.O.A. style sex. That one time out of four she wants vaginal sex, but it only lasts for a few minutes before she wants it in her ass. Which is how we almost always finish anyway. After having twins vaginal has become uncomfortable for her and it only feels good for a very short time.

On Saturday afternoon my wife wants to use a heart shaped pastie to seal her pussy closed. Using the vee at the top to leave her clit exposed so I can lick it. Not that it takes much for play these days to get her ass ready. She has gotten to the point now that I can enter her ass “cold” with ease & no discomfort at all for her. Does anyone else have special, kinky plans for this month?

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Message: I Never Thought I’d Say This…

JennaA: Last month my boyfriend asked me to try going anal only, and I agreed to try it this month because I had seen posts about Anal Only April online. We just started doing anal about a year ago and I had never thought I would been into it at all, but we both really like it now, and my boyfriend really prefers it. I think I prefer it too, but I was always insistent that I wouldn’t go anal only because I like my pussy too.

Anyway, after half a month of anal only, I can see the point of anal only a lot more, and while I still miss my pussy getting attention, I see why it’s nice to not use it and to let it stay horny and get fucked in my ass only. It’s making me much more sexual than I was before and I love it! We haven’t decided yet but I’m honestly open to the idea of staying anal only after April now.

Glad to hear it! It’s a common theme I have encountered over the years: the idea that anal only is crazy and someone would never do that… until she tries it, and realizes how much better it is to be anal only, and after a month or two of just anal, she doesn’t want to go back to vaginal at all.

Enjoy the rest of the month, and definitely keep going after that if you enjoyed yourself in April!

Only a Few Weeks Left in Anal Only April 2021!

Craving something new? Why not go anal only for a whole month? Challenge yourself to Anal Only April.

We’re now halfway through Anal Only April, our annual event encouraging people to try going anal only for a whole month to experience what it’s really like to do just anal long-term and discover the benefits of doing so for them.

If you are just discovering this now, or haven’t have a chance to try it yet, it’s not too late to get started! You can either plan on taking part in the next two weeks until the end of April, or you can just get started on a full month right now!

If you have been taking part, don’t forget to check in and let us know how things are going. Updates, questions, and requests for advice are all always welcome from anyone and everyone.

Message: My Anal Only April Goals

AnnaB: My boyfriend eagerly agreed when I said we should try Anal Only April, and I really love it so far, it makes me so horny and wet to only do anal and ignore my pussy! We’re going to try anal only without touching my pussy at all for the whole month and I really hope it goes well because if it does I’m going to ask him if I can stay anal only!

That sounds like the perfect goal, and he’s a lucky guy to have someone so enthusiastic about anal only!

Anal Only April 2021

Craving something new? Why not go anal only for a whole month? Challenge yourself to Anal Only April.

Announced last month, Anal Only April has now officially begun! Read through the earlier post for the full details, but in essence, it’s a challenge for you and any partners you may have to only have anal sex for the entire month, as an opportunity to explore the anal only lifestyle without a long-term up-front commitment.

If being anal only intrigues you, here’s your chance to try it for yourself. If you’re already anal only, take it as a month of celebration and as much anal sex, masturbation and butt plugging as you can manage, or an opportunity to explore a new twist on the anal only lifestyle that you’ve been fantasizing about or are curious to try. In the past, some long-term anal only women have made Anal Only April a “double anal only” month!

As always, if you plan to participate, let us know and share your experiences and questions throughout the month and beyond. After all, most people who try going anal only for a month or two at first find that they don’t ever want to go back to vaginal by the time their trial period is over!

Read the full rules and details of Anal Only April!