One of the best ways to get into the anal only lifestyle is to try it for an extended period of time. We recommend trying it for a whole month, as it gives you enough time to adjust to the routine and work out the kinks, but some people start just doing it one day a week, or for a weekend, then expand it to one week a month, and slowly work their way up to being anal only for a whole month or more before committing to it long-term.
Jay: Do you know where I can find anal only hypnos with women? I’m a FTM Transman who wants to try to be anal only in april and I’m looking for hypnos to watch while anal masturbating.
There isn’t a ton of content out there, but there are a few which you can find by searching Google for “anal only hypnos”. The first ones that come up in such a search are about the only ones that truly contain inspirational/hypno-style text.
Otherwise, the bulk of the content available is anal/anal only PMVs (Porn Music Videos), which can serve a similar purpose but generally don’t include text.
Yes, it’s that time of the year again! If you’ve been looking for an excuse to try going anal only for yourself, or to bring up the idea with a partner, here’s your chance.
The rules of Anal Only April are simple: starting April 1st, whether on your own or with your significant other, stop all vaginal penetration for sex and masturbation, and replace it with anal instead.
Clitoral stimulation is optional. If you would like to go for a more advanced form of anal only, try doing it without touching your clit and only orgasming through anal. If you need your clit in order to enjoy anal, combine it with anal, but only rub your clit while also masturbating anally.
Oral sex is still allowed and encouraged, especially blowjobs and rimming. Cunnilingus is optional—some choose to exclude it, others still include it but don’t engage in any vaginal penetration as part of it.
Try your best to stick with anal only for the whole month—it’s a long enough period of time that while you might struggle a little bit with it at first, whether adjusting to the frequency of anal sex, or dealing with lingering cravings for vaginal sex or clitoral stimulation, by the end of a month most people figure out what being anal only is really like, and a majority of people who enjoyed their month trial either choose to stay anal only and not go back to vaginal, or return to it again later after a break.
If you’re already anal only, don’t worry— you can still enjoy Anal Only April yourself. Challenge yourself to have anal sex every day of the month, or to start wearing a butt plug or masturbate anally every day, or to experiment with clitoral denial and anal only orgasms if you aren’t already, or to start doing ass to mouth regularly, or to train your ass with bigger toys to be able to do anal fisting or double anal. The possibilities are endless for exploring new things as part of the anal only lifestyle. If you already enjoy double anal, consider trying making April a double anal only month—whether with two partners every time, or with a partner and a dildo, or two dildos.
Over the next month, get your plans in order, get your partner (if any) on board, and if you haven’t had anal sex yet or for a while, start working on training so that by the time Anal Only April begins, you’re ready to dive in!
If you decide to take part, let us know! Share your plans, ask any questions, and keep us updated as you start exploring the anal only lifestyle!
Hi everyone. I’ve been having more and more anal with my partner lately and he agreed to do a week of AO. It has been awesome and I’m going to ask him if we can try doing all of March! The last 2 times I didn’t touch my clit at all (I’m also not allowed to touch my clit unless he says okay) and I experienced what I think was an anal orgasm both times. I felt intense pleasure all of a sudden and it didnt have the same sharp peak as a clit orgasm but I did feel this incredible relaxed amazing feeling through my whole body afterwards. I have also given into a long term fantasy of mine and finally ordered a real chastity belt from Fancy Steel. I can’t wait.
Now that we’re several months into the new year and new decade, it’s time to check in and see how things are going with everyone! If you’ve made this commitment, whether you’ve stuck with it, had struggles, or gone on and off, let us know how things have gone!
If this is your first time hearing about Anal Only 2020, or if you haven’t started yet but would like to take part, do it! You can go anal only at any time, and don’t let getting a later start keep you from going for it!
Though many haven’t been sharing publicly, many women and couples have been taking part in Anal Only 2020, including several who decided to stop using their pussy in December or January, and often their clit as well, and are currently planning to stay that way for the entire year, with the goal for many to keep going indefinitely if they make it through the year. One woman who has already been anal only for several years made her No Pussy November challenge last year to go double anal only, then enjoyed it so much that she stayed that way to the end of the year, and then made it her 2020 challenge to stay double anal only through this year and beyond—that means she never has less than two guys in her ass at the same time! Double anal is a part of other women’s goals as well, some to start doing it for the first time, and others to do it more often.
Whatever your experience, goals or interest, we’d like to hear about it, so please share!
Anonymous: Last week I showed your post about Valentine’s Day to my girlfriend and we decided to try it together. That might seem surprising, but she really loves anal and we do it pretty often already, but with vaginal about 30% of the time too. She thought it sounded fun to try anal only, so we agreed to do it for a week, starting on the evening of the 14th.
Well, I can tell you that it’s been a big success! We haven’t done vaginal since, it’s been a little over a week now, and neither of us miss it. So we’ve decided to keep going. For now we’re going to try to the end of the month, but we agreed that if we still feel this way on March 1, we’ll stick with it. Anal is very much our preferred way to have sex anyway, so if it turns out that vaginal doesn’t really do anything for us and we don’t miss it, we’d rather stick with what does work best!
Thanks for the suggestion.
Congratulations! Thanks for sharing. It sounds like you’re well on track to a lovely anal only future together, for sure!
So we’ve been together for about 6 years and I let her know early on that anal was my biggest kink by a long shot. I absolutely love it more than anything. So convinced her to try anal fairly early on but she didnt like it at all and only did it very rarely over the course of the next 5ish years and only if i begged her like crazy until she gave in (yeah i know. not exactly proud but i think we’ve all been there). however, very very slowly but surely she went from not liking it to not minding it so much and it became a once a month- 2 months thing.
but then early last year we had a massive breakthrough. WE FOUND THE RIGHT LUBE Its never been the same. Up until then we had used lots of spit, just vaginal juice, local store bought lube, and adam and eve lube but then I found a video somewhere I think on youtube of a girl explaining how she came to enjoy anal and the right glycerin free lube was the key. so we bought some [Sliquid H2O] and the difference was like night and day. Suddenly it didnt hurt at all anymore and it didnt dry out nearly as quickly! so then for a few months anal became a once a week thing and she started to really enjoy it. never asking for it, but not objecting to it at all really, which is a massive improvement over the constant anal rejection id faced up til then.
finally at the end of january I asked if shed be willing to try anal only for a month. (I specifically waited for the shortest month) she was reluctant at first but we came to an agreement that she would do anal only for me if I agreed to not to have any unhealthily snacks in the house for the month (i love me some snacks). so the next day or so things started getting heavy and we built up to it slowly, then when I put it in her ass that night, she described it as something finally clicked into place and it felt amazing! better than vaginal! she said she never wanted my cock in her ass so bad before. until this point, when we had anal, she would never really fuck me back during anal the way she does during vaginal. she would just kinda take it. not nearly as active. but not this time. she got on top to get my whole cock in her ass and rode me like never before. she absolutely loved it and started begging me to cum in her ass. i obliged. not that i really had a choice. some of the best sex we had ever had in >6 years. until last night.
yesterday (valentines day) was probably the best day ever. ill spare you the story of the whole day but suffice it to say: it was very romantic and overall great. now the sex. we upgraded to [Sliquid Sassy] and its 100x better than the stuff we had before. tons of build up and foreplay, just genuinely enjoying each other’s bodies, then the anal. i must have fucked her ass like 5 times that night. we just couldnt fucking get enough. she moaned and screamed like she never had before, saying all kinds of dirty shit like how much she loves my cock, how it feels amazing in her ass, how she wants me to fill her ass with cum, and so on. she never talks like that. just not her sex style, but in her words ” it just felt too fucking good not to. it was involuntary” definitely topped anything we’d done before. best sex ever. we fell asleep covered in sweat and other fluids.
then we woke up this morning and couldn’t help ourselves. she started sucking my morning wood, then looked up at me and said the magic words “i want you fuck my ass from behind”. as far as i can remember, that was the first time she has EVER asked for anal directly without any prompting or asking from me. just out of the blue. it made me so so fucking happy to finally hear her ask for it. so i did. i fucked her ass like an animal. for the rest of today she kept on telling me how amazing it felt and how she loves getting fucking in the ass. my favorite was ” it was just so good. when I think about you pounding my ass it just makes me love you so much!” I love you too, baby. I asked if she thinks we could continue anal only indefinitely and she said yes, guys. she fucking said yes. we’re both so happy right now.
Valentine’s Day is here, and whether you’ve been planning to give the gift of anal only this year, or if you need a last minute gift idea and are coming up blank, this is your opportunity.
Going anal only can not only be a fun and exciting change for you and your partner, it can be far more pleasurable than vaginal, and brings your relationship closer together and with greater intimacy than vaginal can provide.
Start with a month long challenge, so you can work out any issues you come across during the initial adjustment period and still have a few weeks to just enjoy the benefits of pure anal, and then if you found, as many do, that you don’t actually miss vaginal sex and prefer being anal only, just keep going with it after the month is over.
Hi, I’m Julieta, I’m 23 years old and I live in Uruguay, South America. I feel enthusiasm and curiosity about the anal only lifestyle, I decided to only have anal sex for a month, even though I have been a week.
I will tell you my story. When I started my puberty and start to explore my body, I touched my vagina but I was afraid to penetrate it and I tried it with my ass, when I was 14 years old I had a boyfriend and I did anal sex with him, not vaginal I was not sure if I lost my vaginal virginity. So my first time was anal months before my first vaginal time.
So from the beginning I had a predisposition for anal sex but I always did vaginal sex more than anal even though I always had both
now I don’t have a boyfriend I am free and I have casual sex or with friends, recently a friend imposed me to have anal sex more frequently, and that awake the anal aroused in me, I have even realized that I like it more than vaginal sex OMG, anal sex is more exciting.
As we enter February, Valentine’s Day is only two weeks away. If you and your partner love anal sex and your partner would consider or is eager to try going anal only, this is a great opportunity for a gift of pure anal pleasure and exploring the anal only lifestyle together.
Start thinking about it and making plans, and on February 14, surprise them with the gift of anal only! It’s common to start with a month long challenge and if that goes well, keep trying for even more from there.
Anonymous: My girlfriend and I got together 6 years ago. She didn’t have much sexual experience when we met, but during those years, little by little, I got her into anal, then anal only, then strict clitoral denial, then casual ass to mouth, then finally orgasm denial (she still has anal orgasms occasionally, but they happen when they happen, I never get out of my way to cause them, and I don’t behave differently when they do).
To me, she’s now the perfect girlfriend, and I actually proposed her! We’re getting married in about three months.
So far, we always had goals in our relationship, and for our marriage, we’d like to try new goals… but I’m perfectly happy, so I’m not sure what I could add, haha! We both love all your blogs, and we wondered if you could suggest something, a new goal to start our marriage. That’d please us very much.
We’re monogamous, not into dirty play or water sports. You probably guessed that my girlfriend is submissive – she wasn’t at first, but she got more and more submissive (both in and out of bed) and slutty as soon as we started clitoral denial. It boomed even more after orgasm denial.
What would you suggest? Thanks, and keep up the good work!
It sounds like you have a wonderful relationship and a wonderful fiancée, thank you for sharing your experiences and your progress together.
Committing to an anal only marriage and a life of pure anal together seems a pretty great goal in and of itself, and having a ceremony of your own after the main wedding where you pledge anal only to each other is something that some anal only couples like to do.
Beyond that, it sounds like you’re at a pretty great place already and should enjoy your ideal relationship and sex life. If there isn’t anything that stands out as something that you’d really like to do, there’s nothing wrong with just enjoying what you have together.
If you wanted to push her anal limits, you could explore larger toys or double anal with you and a toy. If she doesn’t wear a plug regularly, you could introduce long term plug wear into your routine. You could talk with friends and couples you know about the anal only lifestyle and work together to try and encourage other people to experiment with it and discover its benefits as well. You could symbolize your commitment to the anal only lifestyle with a set of chastity piercings.
If you do settle on something, or have any other questions, don’t hesitate to share or ask.
