Vaginal sex is, even still, often considered by many to be the default form of sexual intimacy. However, it is not universally enjoyable or even possible for everyone. A variety of medical conditions can make vaginal sex uncomfortable, painful, or even impossible. These include conditions such as vaginismus, endometriosis, pelvic inflammatory disease, and many others. The anal only lifestyle, wherein vaginal sex is set aside in favor of anal sex, provides a feasible and satisfying alternative for those dealing with such health issues.

Before delving into the benefits of the anal only lifestyle, it’s crucial to dispel some misconceptions about anal sex. Contrary to prevalent myths, when performed correctly — that is, with ample preparation, communication, lubrication, and consensual agreement between partners — anal sex can be safe, pleasurable, and free of pain.

For individuals with conditions like vaginismus, which involves involuntary muscle spasms in the pelvic floor muscles that can make vaginal sex extremely painful, the anal only lifestyle can be a lifeline. It offers an avenue for sexual expression and pleasure that avoids triggering the distressing symptoms associated with their condition. Instead of feeling left out or incapable of enjoying sexual activity, adopting the anal only lifestyle can provide a sense of normalcy and fulfillment.

Even for conditions that aren’t directly related to the vagina, such as interstitial cystitis, where sexual activity can trigger discomfort or pain, the anal only lifestyle can provide a solution. By focusing on anal sex, these individuals can enjoy sexual pleasure without the fear of triggering their symptoms.

The anal only lifestyle also offers benefits to those experiencing menopausal symptoms, such as vaginal dryness or thinning of vaginal tissues. These changes can make vaginal sex uncomfortable or painful. By adopting the anal only lifestyle, women can continue to enjoy active sex lives without resorting to hormone therapies or other medical interventions.

Furthermore, individuals who have undergone hysterectomies or other gynecological surgeries may find the anal only lifestyle a viable option. This lifestyle allows them to reclaim their sexual lives post-surgery without the need for further medical intervention or risk to their health.

Of course, the anal only lifestyle is not just about avoiding pain or discomfort. It also offers a range of potential pleasures. Many individuals find that anal sex offers a unique and deeply satisfying form of sexual stimulation. In fact, with the right techniques, many people find they can achieve orgasm solely through anal sex.

Adopting the anal only lifestyle is also not without its potential challenges. There’s often a learning curve involved, particularly for those new to anal sex. Patience, communication, and plenty of lubrication are essential. But with time and practice, many individuals find that the rewards far outweigh the initial effort.

While we have long-celebrated Anal Only April and No Pussy November, we are now going to be supplementing those with monthly challenges designed to attract more engagement with the anal only lifestyle and push those already practicing anal only to go further in their own lifestyle.

It’s time to launch into Jumpstart July! This month, we’re challenging you to step up your anal game and reach new heights of pleasure. This challenge is designed to give your anal only journey a powerful boost, whether you’re a newbie or a veteran.

If you’re new to the anal only lifestyle, now’s the time to dive in! Begin by discussing the plan with your partner, or if you’re riding solo, get your toys ready and set your intention for a month of anal exploration. It can start with simple anal play and gradually increase to more intense experiences, such as using larger toys, trying anal sex for the first time, or committing to a month of anal only.

For those already in the anal only lifestyle, Jumpstart July offers a perfect opportunity to level up your anal activities!

Consider stepping up your butt plug routine. If you’re not yet wearing a butt plug daily, this is the month to commit. Try wearing your plug for longer durations or even aim to stay plugged the entire day! If you’re comfortable with your current plug, why not explore larger sizes or different shapes for new sensations?

Feel like pushing boundaries further? Double anal could be your next venture. Experiment with your partner and a toy, two partners, or even two toys. The double sensation could be the jumpstart your anal play routine needs!

This July, we’re also introducing the advanced challenge of “Fathom the Depths.” This is for those who are ready to explore deep anal play. With the right tools and caution, deep anal can bring about extraordinary pleasure.

Remember, everyone’s journey is different, and the goal is to explore, experiment and enjoy. Keep things safe, consensual, and pleasure-focused. Share your experiences with the community, ask your questions, offer advice and let’s keep the discussion going!

Are you ready for Jumpstart July? Let us know your plans!

Anna: Hello, I wrote to you at the beginning of this year, sorry for not replying to your question sooner. To explain my situation better, I’ll rewind to the start of my sexuality.

I started very young with an older and more experienced boyfriend. It went really well, until he started asking if I wanted to try anal sex. I always declined, but he insisted so much that I finally agreed to get it over with.

I hated everything related to the preparation (he helped me and it embarrassed me a little), but I enjoyed the sex itself much more than I originally anticipated. I told him so, and I expected we would do anal once in a while in the future, but instead, he took me anally basically every time we had sex.

Eventually, we split up, and I had two boyfriends after that. A similar thing happened with both of them: we had a normal relationship, then at one point I mentioned in a discussion that I tried and enjoyed anal sex, then my boyfriend immediately asked to try it, we had anal sex, and from that point our sex was mostly anal.

When I got with my fourth boyfriend, I didn’t want this to happen, so I was careful not to mention anal to him. Then COVID happened (I was a student back then), I got alone a lot, and like many girls during that period, I started an OnlyFans (solo at first). It made much more money than I thought, so I took requests, and most were anal. I complied, and when most of my videos became anal, my OnlyFans boomed, and I started getting very negative or even hate feedback every time a video wasn’t anal, so I announced that from now on, I’d be anal only, and I got even more popular.

Meanwhile, when restrictions became less tight, I resumed standard sex with my boyfriend. Doing anal only on a professional level and normal sex personally was fine with me. My relationship with my boyfriend became serious, though, and I felt like I had to confess to him I had an OnlyFans. He reacted much better than I feared, it even seemed to arouse him.

Then I got suggestions to do actual porn movies, and I got curious, and I contacted studios. Their offers were mostly anal, and to avoid getting my fan base angry, I decided to continue being anal only. I finally did my first studio video with an actor, and everything went fine, I rather enjoyed it, people were happy and it worked well.

Thanks for the update. It sounds like anal has always been an important part of your life, and going anal only both professionally and personally has been beneficial for you. I hope that you continue to stay anal only for good now.

In the world of sexual exploration, some practices stand apart. They catch the eye, stir curiosity, and challenge our notions of what is considered conventional. One such practice is ass to mouth. Often observed in adult films and discussed in quiet circles, it’s a practice that intrigues many who are exploring the anal only lifestyle. But what exactly is ass to mouth, and how does it fit into the anal only landscape?

Ass to mouth, in its essence, refers to the act of orally pleasuring the penis after it has been engaging in anal sex. In the past often considered a kink, it resonated deeply with some individuals due to its taboo nature. It speaks of an uninhibited, spontaneous approach to sexual pleasure, indicating complete acceptance and an unbridled enthusiasm for all aspects of anal sex. More recently, it has been becoming a staple of anal sex and the anal only lifestyle, however.

Why might someone be interested in ass to mouth? There are several motivating factors. For some, it’s the taboo itself. The thrill of engaging in an act society often labels as “dirty” or “forbidden” can amplify sexual desire, giving an adrenaline kick that layers more pleasure onto the sexual experience.

For others, the physical aspect is stimulating. The unique taste, the sensation, and the intimate connection that comes with it can be incredibly arousing. It embodies a total acceptance of anal sex—the willingness to orally pleasure what was just pleasuring an anus underscores a deep desire and commitment to the act itself.

As always, communication and consent are paramount. Ass to mouth isn’t for everyone, and that’s perfectly okay. As you explore the dimensions of the anal only lifestyle, it’s crucial to talk openly and honestly with your partner about your interests, comfort zones, and boundaries. If both parties are willing to explore ass to mouth, it should be a mutual decision made with respect and understanding.

So, how does ass to mouth fit into the anal only lifestyle? It’s all about acceptance and enthusiasm for anal sex, recognizing it as a pleasurable and satisfying sexual act. It’s about dismantling taboos and exploring the breadth of your sexual potential. Ass to mouth can be seen as a powerful affirmation of one’s complete immersion in anal pleasure. It reflects a willingness to embrace all facets of anal sex.

We hope you found this post insightful and inspiring. Your journey and experiences are unique, and we’d love to hear about them. Are you living the anal only lifestyle? Are you curious to explore it? Have you experienced something extraordinary, faced challenges, or discovered personal insights you’d like to share? If so, we invite you to share your story with us.

There’s a revolution happening in bedrooms around the world—a shift from traditional sexual norms that’s empowering women in a completely unique way. It’s the fusion of two concepts: the anal only lifestyle and a commitment to lifelong vaginal virginity. This unconventional pairing offers a fresh perspective on female sexuality, allowing women to explore their bodies while preserving a significant part of their physical identity. This combination is not only appealing but potentially game-changing.

The anal only lifestyle is about more than just physical pleasure. It’s about redefining sexual norms and taking control of your body. It’s about taking the path less trodden, and for women, it’s about going straight to anal from the first time they explore their bodies, embracing a lifestyle that is uniquely pleasurable and deeply personal.

Now, why would a woman choose this path? The first reason is empowerment. Choosing to engage solely in anal sex and preserve vaginal virginity is an expression of control over one’s body. It is a deliberate decision to break free from traditional expectations of sexuality and rewrite one’s sexual narrative. In a world where women’s bodies are often the subject of societal scrutiny and control, this choice represents a reclaiming of power.

This choice also disrupts the conventional focus on vaginal penetration as the primary source of pleasure for women. Anal sex can offer unique, intense pleasure—an entirely different sensation that many women find far more satisfying. It’s not a ‘second-best’ option, but a legitimate and fulfilling primary means of sexual enjoyment.

Moreover, preserving vaginal virginity while engaging in the anal only lifestyle is a potent symbol of autonomy. It’s a personal declaration of the value placed on virginity, which has often been defined and controlled by societal expectations. This lifestyle choice is a woman asserting that she can be sexually active and maintain her vaginal virginity, a decision that is hers to make and hers alone.

When it comes to the practicalities of sexual enjoyment and satisfaction, the anal only lifestyle delivers. Multiple orgasms are a reality for many women, and the feeling of fullness experienced through anal penetration is different but equally gratifying when compared to vaginal sex. The anal only lifestyle celebrates this unique pleasure and encourages women to explore and indulge in it.

Finally, there’s the distinct sense of shared adventure that comes with embracing the anal only lifestyle. The world of anal pleasure requires patience, trust, and open communication between partners, which can lead to a deeper level of intimacy.

So if you’re a vaginal virgin, don’t waste the gift that you have. Take the chance you are given and commit to staying a vaginal virgin and going pure anal only.

We hope you found this post insightful and inspiring. Your journey and experiences are unique, and we’d love to hear about them. Are you living the anal only lifestyle? Are you curious to explore it? Have you experienced something extraordinary, faced challenges, or discovered personal insights you’d like to share? If so, we invite you to share your story with us.

Jane: Hey there! I’ve been loving the anal only lifestyle for ten amazing years now. I thought I’d share a bit about my journey and what has kept me on this anal-only road, and a little about my slightly unconventional living situation.

A decade ago, my love life felt like a well-worn path, comfortable but pretty predictable. Anal was like a hushed secret, but it piqued my curiosity. I discovered the AOL community and felt like I’d stumbled onto a hidden treasure. So, I decided to take the plunge and, let me tell you, I haven’t regretted it for a moment.

I know a lot of people worry about the “loose anus” thing. Yes, my bum has gotten more flexible over the years, but boy, has it been a fun ride! Our society has this tight-is-right mindset. But bodies are meant to change, adapt, and let’s not forget, experience pleasure! As my anus became more flexible, my sexual experiences escalated to levels I never imagined.

Enter the double anal part of my story. Single anal was awesome, but as my bum got more accommodating, I decided it was time to up the ante. Double anal seemed daunting at first, but with plenty of prep (and a metric ton of lube!), it’s been a source of power, pleasure, and even pride. Today, I wear my “double anal only” badge with a sense of accomplishment, and my newfound bum flexibility has made this exciting journey possible.

As a double anal only woman, I live with two fantastic partners. We share an understanding, a unique bond, and a mutual respect for each other’s pleasure. Living together means navigating the practicalities of life while maintaining the thrill of our sexual dynamic. There’s always open communication, loads of fun, and, of course, plenty of double anal! And yes, every time we have sex, it’s with both of them in my ass together. When only one of them is around, we do oral instead.

For anyone who’s worried about anal only changing your body, remember this: change is growth. It’s about pushing boundaries, exploring new forms of pleasure, and most importantly, embracing every part of yourself. If you’re thinking about starting the anal only journey, dive in! This community is here to offer support, share experiences, and shower understanding. We’re all about acceptance, celebration, and breaking societal norms.

Here’s to another decade of living anal only, challenging norms, and embracing the wild, wonderful, and pleasurable changes. Remember, there’s no shame in pursuing pleasure, no disgrace in body changes, and absolutely no fear in being your true self.

Liz94: I grew up in the LDS church with a strong belief in saving myself for marriage and preserving my virginity. So when I first heard about the anal only lifestyle, I was intrigued by the idea of maintaining my vaginal virginity while still having fulfilling sexual experiences. I never imagined that I would end up fully embracing the lifestyle, but that’s exactly what happened.

When I first started experimenting with anal sex, it was simply a way to preserve my virginity and satisfy my sexual desires. But as I learned more about the lifestyle, I discovered that there was so much more to it. The focus on anal pleasure, the deeper connection with my partner, and the increased intimacy all had a profound impact on me.

I soon realized that this was more than just a temporary solution; it was a way of life. After leaving the Mormon church, I was faced with the question of whether to continue with the anal only lifestyle or not. But after much thought and consideration, I decided to embrace it fully. The benefits of anal sex, both physically and emotionally, far outweighed any societal norms or expectations.

I was finally able to fully embrace my sexuality and enjoy the deep pleasure that comes with anal sex. I’m now a firm believer in the anal only lifestyle and I’ve never looked back. It’s been a journey filled with growth, self-discovery, and amazing sexual experiences. And I’m so grateful for this blog for providing a supportive community and a wealth of information to help me along the way.

Anonymous: I have a question regarding the lifestyle. My girlfriend and I have been together for a few months now and she has recently expressed her preference for anal sex. She says it feels better for her and she would like us to move towards an anal only lifestyle. I have to admit, I am a bit hesitant about this. I have always been used to vaginal sex and the thought of giving that up is a bit hard. Also, I am worried about the pain and discomfort for her with transitioning to only having anal sex. But I also want to make sure that I am giving her the best possible sexual experience. What should I do in this situation? How can I make sure that we both enjoy the experience and make the transition to an anal only lifestyle as smooth as possible?

Thanks for reaching out. It sounds like you’re a lucky guy to have a girlfriend who is so open with what she wants and needs, and who loves and prefers anal.

Have you done anal together yet? It sounds like perhaps not, if you are concerned about it hurting her. If she prefers it, chances are it’s very pleasurable for her and not going to be a problem with pain or discomfort, even if you switch to doing it full time.

As for giving up vaginal, that honestly is going to be a far better experience for both of you in the long run. Anal is more pleasurable and exciting when done well, and the more you do it the better it gets. Plus it’s natural birth control and you don’t have to worry about pregnancy scares with it. Once you’ve been anal only for a few months, you won’t miss vaginal at all and you won’t want to go back to it.

When it comes to sexual activity, the world has long been fixated on vaginal intercourse as the end-all-be-all. But what if there was a way to achieve even greater pleasure, intimacy, and overall well-being? Enter the anal only lifestyle.

There are numerous health benefits of going anal only, from reducing the risk of unwanted pregnancy to preventing certain infections and cancers, the advantages of anal sex are so great it’s a wonder we aren’t all anal only yet.

First and foremost, going anal only eliminates the risk of unwanted pregnancy. With the constant threat of birth control access being limited and the sometimes severe side effects that come with it, choosing anal sex as your primary form of sexual activity eliminates this concern altogether. Furthermore, anal sex reduces the risk of certain infections such as vaginal infections and UTIs, as well as cervical cancer.

Engaging in anal sex also leads to improved muscle tone in the anus, leading to greater control and tighter muscles — a definite plus in the bedroom. Even while you gain more control to relax and loosen for easier and painless sex, you can also gain the ability to tighten and flex your muscles at will, creating wonderful sensations for your partner.

And let’s not forget about the emotional benefits. The trust, communication, and intimacy required for successful anal sex leads to stronger, healthier relationships. It also allows for a greater sense of self-discovery and empowerment as individuals take control of their own sexual desires and pleasure.

Now, I know that the idea of the anal only lifestyle may be met with skepticism or even disgust by some. But it’s important to remember that everyone’s preferences and comfort levels are different. The goal here is not to force anyone into something they’re not comfortable with, but rather to open up a dialogue and educate individuals about the potential benefits of anal sex.

It’s time for us to break free from societal stigmas and taboos surrounding anal sex and start viewing it as a viable, pleasurable option. So, whether you’re a seasoned pro or just dipping your toes into the world of anal sex, consider the anal only lifestyle and all the benefits it has to offer. Trust me, you won’t be disappointed.

In the 2020s, it’s become very clear that reproduction is the least desired outcome of sexual activity for most people, and while some may eventually want children, people want sex younger and younger and without the risk of pregnancy. Add the side-effects, risks and legal threats to birth control and we’re solidly in a time and place where even considering vaginal intercourse to be sex doesn’t make sense anymore.

Anal sex has been stigmatized for far too long, with many people viewing it as dirty, immoral, or unnatural. However, this could not be further from the truth. Anal sex is a natural and healthy form of sexual activity that can provide a level of pleasure and intimacy that is not found in vaginal sex. Furthermore, it eliminates the risk of unwanted pregnancy which is more and more important these days.

For centuries, women have been expected to get pregnant and give birth, engaging in vaginal sex as their primary form of sexual activity because this is seen as the correct way when reproduction is the goal, even if it is not something they personally enjoy or want to do. This expectation is not only unfair, it’s also limiting—women have the right to their own bodies and to make their own choices about what they do with them.

There is a lack of education and understanding about the potential pleasure and intimacy that can be found in anal sex. Many people view anal sex as painful and uncomfortable, but with proper communication, consent, and preparation, this is not the case. In fact, anal sex can provide a unique and intense pleasure that is not found in vaginal sex, and it shifts the focus of sex to pleasure rather than reproduction, giving women both sexual and reproductive freedom compared to vaginal sex.

People rarely have sex to get pregnant, so it’s time to stop thinking of vaginal as sex. Sex is about pleasure and intimacy. When we say “sex”, let’s think of anal instead.