Anonymous: My goal is to go anal only. But my boyfriend doesn’t like anal and wants to fuck my pussy. It’s so annoying.. anyways.. I don’t know what to do. I love him but I don’t want to give up on my dream to become a good anal whore

pussysucks: Tell him your pussy sucks and you don’t like it fucked. Tell him you want to be his anal whore. Tell him only your asshole gives you pleasure and satisfies you. Tell him you’ll let him fuck your asshole and suck your cock whenever he wants, but you don’t want him in your pussy anymore. Ask him if there’s anything he wants to do with you that you haven’t done yet or that he wants to do more in exchange for going anal only. Try to get him to commit to a month of anal only to start with and see how he really likes it.

Why doesn’t he like anal? Most guys who don’t think they like anal have a hangup about cleanliness or preparation/warmup. If you keep yourself clean and ready at all time, always have lube, and wear a butt plug when you aren’t having sex so your ass stays warmed up and relaxed and ready for cock whenever either of you want it, he’ll probably be a lot more appreciative of it and be able to see it for the better hole that it is.

For now, to start, stop using your pussy and clit entirely when you masturbate and go anal only for yourself. Plug your ass regularly, fuck it with dildos, finger it, but don’t play with your pussy or your clit anymore.

The best month of the year is nearly here! Start making your plans for No Pussy November 2017 and join the community in your own personal anal only challenge!

The absolute best way to explore and experiment with going anal only is to challenge yourself to only have anal (and oral!) sex for at least one month, and No Pussy November is designed specifically around that purpose. If you’ve been curious about going anal only but haven’t tried it yet, this is your opportunity. With a month advance to get any partners on board, get any toys you may want to use for it, or slowly start ramping up to 100% anal only, let No Pussy November 2017 be your introduction to the joys of the anal only lifestyle.

If you already are anal only, No Pussy November presents the opportunity to introduce a new twist into your sex life! Try eliminating clitoral stimulation for the month and focusing on purely anal pleasure, working to orgasm anally if that isn’t something you can do easily yet. Start going ass to mouth. Try plugging your ass whenever it’s not being used for sex. Get yourself a physical chastity device to block access to your pussy. Get chastity piercings. An anal only tattoo (either temporary or permanent). Talk with your friends and get them to try going anal only for No Pussy November as well. There are plenty of interesting possibilities to try!

Share your plans and goals for No Pussy November, as well as your experiences as the actual month progresses! Send a message, share on the Anal Only Lifestyle Forum, or come join and chat with us on our Anal Only Lifestyle Discord server.

acuntdenied: Got my long ware butt plug. Really enjoying how it makes my ass feel full and my worthless cunt empty

Anonymous: Hello, so yesterday I decided to start playing with my asshole a little bit to see how it feels like, first it was just rubbing the whole then inserted the tip only. Today I tried to insert my toothbrush and it felt so amazing that I think I might turn to an anal slut. Do you have any tips or instructions to Follow for this process ?

Good for you, taking the initiative to pursue your own greater pleasure through your ass, and wanting to become an anal slut as a natural result of that. It’s no surprise, once you experience the greater pleasure your ass can provide, there’s no turning away from it.

Stop all vaginal masturbation/fingering and replace it with anal. Stop playing with your clit, for now at least, as well. Instead, masturbate anally only and try to orgasm with just your ass. If you find that you aren’t able to after a few days, you can add your clit back in as well, but only when there is something in your ass, and only the minimum needed to supplement your ass and push you over the edge to orgasm. Better to pursue the far greater pleasure of pure anal orgasms, though.

Start with small anal insertions, like your finger, your toothbrush, a hairbrush handle, etc. Slowly work up to larger things. Eventually use a natural size dildo. Get yourself some butt plugs to use as well both to help relax and train your ass, and to keep your ass full and your thoughts and focus on your ass and the resulting arousal that comes from having it filled.

Stick with it, and you’ll be anal only in no time.

The original poster followed up:

So I continued my anal training today and as I was doing some chores by the afternoon, I felt like my asshole had a pulse and it’s like it was throbing, so I remembered my anal training again and got aroused just by thinkin abt it

It sounds like you’re a natural for anal only, and once you awoke your asshole, it’s come alive and is demanding more. Give it attention all the time, stop using your cunt and clit, and it will repay you with endless pleasure.

Anonymous: Hi, it’s really inspiring that you’re so dedicated to your ass. I’d like to have anal sex more often, and it’s my dream to wear a butt plug everyday. You have so much experience. Do you have any tips about keeping empty and clean? I’d greatly appreciate it.

dumbandpretty: Thanks! Well, dreams only come true if you work for them. Buy a beginner size plug and start wearing it as often as you can. Push your limits, gradually work your way up, and before you know if you’ll be taking cocks in your ass like a champ. As for keeping empty and clean: if you eat well (a balanced diet) and recognize that your butt is where all your waste leaves your body (i.e. that no matter how much effort you put in, there will be times when you’ll encounter feces) and try to bathe/shower before anal, it’ll help. You can also go one step further, which is what I occasionally do: enema kits are widely available and simple, if uncomfortable, to use.

Anonymous: I wore a butt plug for 15 hours (with short breaks) and I’m so proud of myself. My friend suggested that I go up a size so now I’m looking for a new plug/set to train my asshole with

Congratulations! I agree, you’re probably ready to try a larger plug. Do note however that you’ll find you will probably need to start slower again with the larger plug and may not be able to take it for quite as long just yet. And you’ll probably find that sometimes you’ll want the smaller plug still too for longer periods while working up to the bigger plug being comfortable longer too.

If you’re looking for specific suggestions on a plug, I’ll need to know what plug you have currently and/or what its insertable dimensions are to recommend something appropriately larger.

The time of the year for anal only challenges is upon us. While No Pussy November is our primary annual event, there are those who also enjoy celebrating Anal Only August and so I am announcing a challenge for anyone who would like to participate. It’s quite open-ended and anything related to anal only will qualify you to participate.

Possible goals for the month of August include: experimenting with a month of anal only if you aren’t currently anal only (either solo or with a partner), going a month of pure anal only without clitoral stimulation if you already are anal only and want to step things up, incorporating ass to mouth into your everyday routine if you don’t already do it, working up to 24/7 butt plug wear, or any other ideas you may have!

Feel free to share your goals and experiences with us here or on the forum in the Anal Only August 2017 thread.

Anonymous: Is it safe for beginners to sleep with a buttplug in?

Sure, as long as it’s a safe buttplug with a wide enough base that won’t slip inside. If it starts to hurt during the night, take it out and try to go for a full night another time. Otherwise, it’s perfectly fine.

loveletterstomister: My ass is uncomfortably full with a glass plug and my empty cunt is dripping and ignored, just the way it’s meant to be.

naughtyboyyi: Is it safe to wear butt plug for a long time?

Safe and encouraged. Wear it for as long as is comfortable.