Hello! I am a French girl and I just wanted to share my story about anal.

I’ve started to enjoy anal sex with my current boyfriend last year, only in rare occasions. Then it seemed like my butthole was much more pleasurable for everyone and we did it more and more. I identify myself as His property and he enjoys it very much. I told him I loved anal and he offered me a beautiful princess plug, because he read it created new sensations while fucking “normally” (meaning in the vagina) and I started to appreciate it more and more and more to the point where he just offered me a new princess plug, much more comfortable to wear for a long time (like a whole night or day), and I soon realized I enjoyed being plugged, wearing my plug, playing with it until my ass is completely gaped and the plug almost falls from it, showing off my gaping asshole to my boyfriend on Skype like a dirty little whore and enjoying the feeling of his hand putting my plug in my butt or his cock penetrating me without even preparing my butt because he knows I have been plugged all day long and completely gaped.

It has been almost a month and I haven’t even touched my vagina. I’m currently wearing my princess plug and I feel like I could spend years without using my vagina to pleasure myself and only masturbating with my butthole, because it is the best hole I can use and my boyfriend supports my anal training. I am plugged at least two hours a day and I hope I can increase this time with my new toy so I can be plugged every time and enjoy anal sex without any preparation and no vaginal stimulation!

Thank you so much for sharing! That’s a wonderful story and really demonstrates how with a little time and determination you can discover how much better anal is, even if you wouldn’t think it at first, and eventually you end up at the point where you want to be completely anal only. I hope you’ll find that it continues to be satisfying and are able to remain anal only long term.

Anonymous: I have two questions! 1. Any tips for wearing a butt plug long term? Any particular ones that are good for long term (8+ hours) wear? 2. What’s the best way to have completely clean anal like porn stars do?

Get one with a t-base or similar that seats comfortably, and no hard/sharp edges, rather than something round-based. There are a lot of good options. The Tantus Ryder is a good small/medium option. As for technique to wear long term, just wear for as long as you can and keep trying to push that a bit longer each time and before you know it you’ll be able to wear it to bed or all day if you want. Carry lube with you in case you need to relubricate throughout the day.

Diet is a major factor for clean anal. Have a generally balanced diet with a healthy amount of fiber and you’ll be naturally pretty clean. Wear a plug before having sex and that will often help you clean out further. Use a small anal douche in the rectum only to flush it out if you feel the need to clean further.

internetsbestsluts: I really love anal play and have been taking the time to train myself to bigger and bigger plugs and toys recently. So today, since there’s not a lot of people in my office and I’m usually alone in my part of the office, I decided to bring some plugs with me to work.

I started off by wearing a very small silicone one. Only about an inch thick, but it was just to get my ass used to being filled constantly all day. I told myself that if I could be extra productive and finish a certain amount of work before lunch I could move up to the bigger plug I brought. So when lunch time came around and I was a productive little butt slut, I went to the restroom and slowly pulled out the little one to make room for the big one.

This bigger one is glass and shaped like an arrow, I call this guy the mean plug. He’s got a reasonable girth to him, except for the flare of the arrow, which is about 2 inches in diameter. It took me a few minutes of fucking my ass in the restroom with the plug to for it to feel more comfortable and not just painful…but it’s been in my ass since noon and I have been bouncing in my chair all day!!! I’m so fucking horny and can’t wait to get home, but I have to take a grocery shopping trip first! I can’t wait to feel the red covering my face as I wonder if anyone knows why I’m walking like there’s something stuck up my ass. 😉 I fucking love being an anal slut!

willowkitty: Another update on the 24 hour plug challenge.

I could not stay awake for the 24 hour mark, so I ended up falling asleep plugged again. To my surprise it actually did stay in the entire night, so I ended up being plugged for just over 30 hours.

I am quite pleased, considering the girth and struggle it was for me to clench and hold on to that toy.

Strong butt is strong!

Anonymous: I started my anal only training on New Years and I am proud to say I can now comfortably take a plug in my ass all night long without any soreness or complaint in the morning! I’m slowly working my way up to being able to keep it in all day! I look forward to the day when my cunt can be relegated to decoration and my ass is ready to be fucked at all times!

Congratulations! Keep up the gradual increases of time and you’ll get there.

Anonymous: Hii, what plug size would you recommend for someone who’s not a starter? I’ve masturbated anally for over 3yrs and I’ve had anal sex but I have never use a plug. Thanks!

That depends somewhat on what your goal is. Do you just want a plug you can comfortably wear for extended periods of time? Or do you want something on the larger end to help you accommodate larger objects and/or penises?

If you want a comfortable potentially long-term wear plug, aim for something with the widest diameter around or a little smaller than sizes you’re comfortable with already, and with a neck diameter a fair amount smaller than the widest diameter so that it stays in place well, and a sturdy but slim T-shaped base so it can rest between your cheeks comfortably. Something like the Tantus Ryder is often good for this purpose, with a max diameter of about 1.5″.

If you want more of a training plug for larger sizes beyond anal sex, you’ll want something with a thicker neck, but there’s such a wide range of sizes available here and it can be very much dependent on what your current maximum comfortable size is, so it’s hard to provide such advice in a generic sense.

Anonymous: I’ve always been interested in anal only. So I’m taking my desires a step further and declaring 2016 the year of Anal Training. My goal is to be an anal only slut by my birthday in April and if I can keep it up all year, going anal only for life. I’m also going to try entire pussy denial in favor of anal orgasm. First plug of the old year is in and not coming out till dawn of the new year! Wish me luck!

Good luck, and enjoy! Have a wonderful anal only new year!

Anonymous: My husband and I have been trying to experiment with anal sex and I’m having a difficult time getting used to it. I’d rather lose my virginity again lol do you have any tips on how to make it easier? Specific toys to use maybe?

First, if you’re finding it uncomfortable or are having a hard time getting used to the sensations, make sure to play with your clit during any anal penetration. I know I often talk about clit denial here, but that’s more of an advanced thing to experiment with for people who already enjoy anal. When you’re starting out, you’ll almost always want to use a vibrator on or rub your clit, to help yourself interpret the new and unusual sensations of anal penetration in a pleasurable light.

If it’s just uncomfortable, doing it regularly along with clit play may be all you need. But if it’s actually painful, you probably need to warm up more first. The key to anal training and warmup is to start small at a size that is not painful, use that size for a little while, then go up gradually in size, and repeat incrementally until you’ve reached whatever size is your goal (if your goal is to have anal sex, then it would be around or slightly above the size of your partner’s penis). The more you get used to it, the less warmup you need, but at least some is generally a good idea. Wearing a good medium-sized butt plug on a regular basis—daily for a little while if possible—as well as before any time you plan to have anal sex will help a lot over time.

You can also try pushing out/bearing down gently as if going to the bathroom during penetration to help relax your muscles and make it easier.

jacobjacob2012: Is it dangerous to leave something up my ass of it has no base ???

Yes, it can be. Objects inserted into the rectum have a tendency to get “sucked” deeper inside due to muscle action, and to avoid getting anything lost inside, you should always use something with a base if you’re going to leave it inside.

Anonymous: Would it be dangerous in anyway to sleep plugged?

begginglittleslut: My initial thought is no as long as it’s clean and everything, but I’m actually not sure. I’ve done it before and haven’t had any problems. Maybe @analsexonly would have a better idea though 🙂

The only potential danger would come from a plug with too small a base. If that is not an issue, go for it. If you aren’t used to long term plug wear yet, you may find that it becomes uncomfortable during the night. If this happens, just remove it and try again another time.