daddysfuckingpsycho: What’s you fascination with anal and not using the vagina

It began as personal preference—I was more attracted to a woman’s ass and anus than to her vagina. I think vaginas are pretty, but I’m not at all attracted to vaginal sex or penetration. A woman’s anus and the idea of anal sex appealed far more. After getting a chance to try both, I found that the reality for me corresponded with my attraction and I greatly preferred the act of anal sex as well, and found the combination of having anal sex and seeing her pussy empty and unused the most visually stimulating for me.

After discovering, years later, that there were women who shared the same preference for anal, and preferred not to have vaginal sex or who excluded it entirely, as well as couples who had been anal only for years or even decades, by mutual choice and preference, I decided this was the right path for me as well, because vaginal sex just didn’t interest me and when I had it, it really did nothing for me and was boring.

Anal sex, in contrast, has never gotten boring, and remains a thrill. It’s more pleasurable for me and for partners, it gives women far more intense orgasms, it’s far more intimate, it’s a mood booster, and more. Because of my personal experiences and the positive reactions from partners and others, I started advocating it to others and encouraging them to try it for themselves. And here we are.

I think it’s best. Others may not. I encourage people to experiment with it and see if it’s something that works for them and which they would like to do as well. If not, fair enough, and more power to you for trying something new.

The Anal Only Lifestyle community has grown far beyond just this blog, and if you’d like to take part more actively or just follow along on everything anal only, be sure to check out everything else we have to offer.

The Anal Only Lifestyle Forum is somewhat of a central hub for the entire community, and you should definitely check it out and join it! As of this writing, there are almost 1,500 members and 1o,000 posts. (Update December 2018: Over 2,000 members now!)

For more active chat and conversation, join our Discord server and say hello to everyone hanging out in there. We’re over 1,100 members now, with 30 to 50 actively online at any given time, generally. (Update December 2018: Over 2,700 members, averaging 150 online now!) Drop in, introduce yourself, and become a more active part of the community! (Please note that this is intended for conversation, consensual sharing of experiences, and getting to know people and make friends, not to look for a quick hookup or harass other members to chat privately or send pictures.)

If you aren’t already following our companion porn blog, Anal Sex Only, feel free to check it out as well for anal only pictures, gifs and video posted multiple times a day with original captions about and advocating for the anal only lifestyle.

As always, you can and are absolutely encouraged to ask advice, share experiences, or just say hi on either blog via a Tumblr Ask or the Tumblr messenger. (Asks will be responded to publicly unless otherwise specified. Anon asks will always be public. Conversation via the Tumblr messenger will always be private unless otherwise specified.)

December 2018 Update: Tumblr has shut down adult blogs since this post was created, but you can track down your favorite anal only-themed blogs and where, if anywhere, they’ve ended up, at our Anal Only Porn Blogs page. You can send messages or ask questions via our Ask a Question page.

The best month of the year is nearly here! Start making your plans for No Pussy November 2017 and join the community in your own personal anal only challenge!

The absolute best way to explore and experiment with going anal only is to challenge yourself to only have anal (and oral!) sex for at least one month, and No Pussy November is designed specifically around that purpose. If you’ve been curious about going anal only but haven’t tried it yet, this is your opportunity. With a month advance to get any partners on board, get any toys you may want to use for it, or slowly start ramping up to 100% anal only, let No Pussy November 2017 be your introduction to the joys of the anal only lifestyle.

If you already are anal only, No Pussy November presents the opportunity to introduce a new twist into your sex life! Try eliminating clitoral stimulation for the month and focusing on purely anal pleasure, working to orgasm anally if that isn’t something you can do easily yet. Start going ass to mouth. Try plugging your ass whenever it’s not being used for sex. Get yourself a physical chastity device to block access to your pussy. Get chastity piercings. An anal only tattoo (either temporary or permanent). Talk with your friends and get them to try going anal only for No Pussy November as well. There are plenty of interesting possibilities to try!

Share your plans and goals for No Pussy November, as well as your experiences as the actual month progresses! Send a message, share on the Anal Only Lifestyle Forum, or come join and chat with us on our Anal Only Lifestyle Discord server.

Update December 2018: While this still hasn’t been written in book form at this time, we do have a new section on this blog that somewhat serves this purpose in an early form. Visit the Anal Sex Advice & Guide to the Anal Only Lifestyle page.

I want to write a book about anal sex and the anal only lifestyle. At this point, this is nothing more than idea, but it’s been at the back of my mind for a while and I want to bring it to the front and start doing some work on the idea. It would be both a guidebook to anal sex in general and to becoming and staying anal only, as well as an overview of the concept of anal only and why people should try it and what its advantages are.

Is this something people would be interested in if it existed? What sort of things would you like to see included in the book? I’m seeking any and all suggestions at this stage!

First there was a kik group, then there was an IRC channel, and now there is a Discord server. We’re retiring the IRC channel, which served us well, for a number of reasons—not least because so many people had trouble connecting and chatting despite trying repeatedly. Discord is a far more modern group chat solution, will work great through your web browser (or you can install desktop and mobile apps), lets you disconnect and return without missing out on conversation when you get back, message each other even when one is offline, and more! You are invited to join and take part immediately!

For those who have been using the IRC channel and may still connect to it directly, it will remain online for a time and I will redirect people who join there over to the new chat so people don’t miss out.

Click to join the Anal Only Lifestyle Discord Server!

It’s the first weekend of Anal Only August 2017! If you are participating, now’s a good time to update everyone with how things have been going so far. Have you been having a good time? Any difficulties or challenges? Temptations to return to vaginal? Keep us informed, and we can help with advice and encouragement.

If you haven’t joined in, there’s still time—you can go anal only at any point and just extend the time so it’s still a month-long challenge for you. For more information, see the original Anal Only August post.

This was originally posted on the companion porn blog on Tumblr, which I was considering ending posting to after Tumblr blocked public access to adult content for non-logged-in users in July of 2017.

After thinking it over last night and this morning, I’ve decided not to end posting here. Despite the external block preventing a lot of new people from finding this blog, I still have over 120,000 followers here who enjoy and make use of this blog, and I don’t want to give up on or abandon all you awesome people. Until there is a better option available, I will continue posting here and updating this blog as well as exploring other options elsewhere and working to build https://www.analonlylifestyle.com into even more of a community beyond just the forum. If anyone has any ideas or suggestions for that, please reach out and share them.

Anonymous: What do you have against pussy?

I like anal more, to the point of not wanting to spend any time on vaginal anymore. I experience far more pleasure and satisfaction and intimacy from anal. I celebrate that fact on this blog, and encourage others to try it as well so they can experience the same.

The anal only community is more than just this blog—there’s also a forum and chatrooms where you can talk with others! Be sure to join our Anal Only Lifestyle forum or our brand new Anal Only Lifestyle Discord server to chat with us!

Discuss anal and the anal only lifestyle, share your experiences and desires, get advice and learn from others, and make new friends!

According to an announcement sent out today, Tumblr will be blocking public access for non-logged in users to all adult-oriented blogs on July 5. This means that if you are not a logged-in Tumblr user, you will no longer be able to access this blog, and presumably it will disappear in Google search results as well, meaning people will no longer be able to search for “anal only” and have it come up. Unfortunately, this has been a way that many anal only individuals have been able to find this community and discover that they aren’t alone and there are many others of us out there as well. A significant amount of my traffic is via Google—over 3,000 people per day find this blog by searching for related topics. That will disappear overnight if non-Tumblr users are blocked from viewing the blog, as presumably that will also exclude search crawlers from properly indexing it anymore.