It’s been some time since original content has been posted here, but I’d like to see it starting up again and this blog becoming more than just a place to reblog asks and text AO-related topics. Do followers have any particular topics related to anal and the anal only lifestyle that they would like to see discussed or address more in-depth? Make your suggestions either in a response to this or an ask or private message, and you may see a longer form post on that topic appearing in the future.

Anonymous: Hey ladies getting all high and mighty about this being anti feminist, you couldn’t be more hypocritical. Feminism isn’t about not doing certain things in the bedroom because it’s perceived as something men want. It’s about doing what makes you and your body happy. I for one am a woman who much prefers anal to vaginal, so instead of preaching about something you don’t have a full grasp on, go do what makes your body happy, and let us do what makes ours happy!

This is always the right answer—do what works for you. This blog is sharing one perspective, and it’s biased heavily in favor of anal and anal only, but I recognize that this will not appeal to or interest everyone. That’s fine. If you know what you want, do it. If you want to explore new things, maybe try anal if you haven’t already, or going anal only for a while if you already know you love anal.

The original version of this post on Tumblr received the following response.

naughtyman1966: Thats how sex should be no pressure, consensual and enjoy yourselves

a1bosshogg: You have such a great blog. I love that it’s not vulgar twards women and how respectful you are to people that disagree with your (our) views. It makes it something you can show your wife or girlfriend. Great job!!!

Thank you. My intent has always been to focus on the female perspective of anal pleasure and show anal positivity rather than the crude, degrading or hateful tones some take when talking about anal. Anal is pleasure and intimacy and can feel better than anything else for women when done right, and focusing on that rather than myths and hate is the way to encourage more people to try it for themselves.

Anonymous: Another chiming in to thank you for your blog. I found it a long time ago and it really stuck in my mind and before long became my number 1 fantasy. I started masturbating anal only last year and that turned me on so much that I started to cum from anal without my clit. The orgasms feel better that way, and I think it’s sexier to not rub myself. I was single at the time, but when I got a new boyfriend who was into anal, we agreed to ignore my pussy and haven’t used it at all. So, thank you!

You’re welcome, and I’m glad I could help inspire you to try it! Enjoy, and stay anal only.

Anonymous: I hate your blog so much! I wish you would take it down. You’re making it so hard for women who won’t do anal to date anymore, all the guys want anal more and more or anal only, and I could never do that. Why do you insist on anal only so much? It’s like we’re all going to have to go anal only now just to get a date.

I highly doubt I have the influence to affect your dating life. Anal only may be growing in popularity over just a few years ago, but it’s still a fairly niche practice. Far more likely is the general cultural acceptance of anal leading to guys being more assertive for their desire or need to have anal. Anal is becoming like oral in the not-to-distant past—no longer a niche, something many people are expecting as a normal part of a relationship.

Just as these guys you’re encountering seem to be standing up for their need for anal, you can stand up for your disinterest in it. I guarantee there are guys out there who only want vaginal as well.

I’m not “insisting” on anal only, I’m advocating for it and encouraging people to try it, but beyond that everyone has the ability to decide whether they do or don’t want to have anything to do with it. As it turns out, a decent number of people like the idea.

That said, why not try anal? Try it on your own time, get familiar with it, masturbate with something in your ass. You’ll probably enjoy it. There’s a reason it’s getting so popular, and it’s not a one-sided thing just because guys want it. It feels really good for women when done correctly, and can make you orgasm better than vaginal/clitoral. It’s definitely worth experimenting with for your own sake, at your own pace.

The original version of this post on Tumblr received the following responses.

420spacequeen: I am a strong independent woman and fuck my ass on a regular basis. I love it!! So many nerve endings. Use a plug while masturbating your clit. Go bigger and bigger each size plug. You’ll soon be begging to be fucked in the ass non-stop.

wrexless: Masturbate with a butt plug in, or have your partner use a toy on you while you have a finger or plug (or anything really) in your butt. That’s how my wife got into it.

Anonymous: Please don’t be intimidated by political correctness and keep on managing your blog exactly how you want it! I’ve always been into anal, but it’s my husband who gradually brought me to anal only, then clitoral denial, then helped me enjoy sex independently from orgasms. We have a power exchange thing going on, he can be quite verbal, and like you, he loves telling me how my cunt and clitoris are useless, how anal is the superior thing, etc. and I love it! We both love your blog as it is!

Thank you—I intend to.

I’m glad to hear that you’re both happily enjoying the anal only lifestyle, and that you enjoy the blog.

Anonymous: While I totally agree about doing anal sex whenever possible, I feel a hate vibe from you. I visit your site everyday, and I find your pics, videos and gifs amazing, but disregarding the vagina as useless, inferior, etcetera, don’t know, man, too much toxicity. You’re doing exactly the same as those people that disregard the ass as only a poop hole, gay, and stuff like that. Don’t be the same, promote the practice without belittling others. Make a difference

analsexonly: You may note that there is a wide range of tone on this blog, and that the captions mostly exist within a fantasy voice, while advice and answers to questions are more neutral and balanced.

Some captions will be more neutral in tone, some will be more strict and perhaps even a little aggressive at times. That has always been a feature of this blog, and will continue to be—I have many followers, and they like a wide range of things, so I try to balance things out and appeal to a broad audience.

At the same time, it’s my blog, and I post what I like. I don’t like pussy or clit, and I do think it’s inferior and fairly useless compared to ass. That’s my opinion, but I will share it here. You’re welcome to follow, or not.

Anonymous: Have you ever considered women with cock? I mean its clear that you dont like pussy, but it is also clear that you like women. So the point is: on transsexual women youll find a beautiful ass to fuck, everything else a female has to offer, and as a gift something better than a pussy to suck or play with the way you want between their legs. After you try it you will never want women with pussy again. So, why losing time with pussy women when theres better women to play with?

analsexonly: I like all anal only women. Pussy may be a waste of time, but women who have a pussy (and don’t use it) are not. And there are plenty such women out there, or women willing or even eager to become that way with the right partner.

Anonymous: Wow, the vagina is useless? As far as I recall, if that was true, we wouldn’t be here. Every organ has a function, and hence every one of them is important, no more, no less than the others. Spread the love without spreading hate, yo!

analsexonly: For recreational sex, which is the subject of this blog? Yes, useless. Ass can do all it can do and more, with more pleasure for both. That’s the entire point of this blog. If you have a problem with that idea, and want pussy to be given equal attention and treatment, then this is not the blog for you. Maybe you haven’t been following very long?

Obviously, vaginas are not completely useless in all ways. They exist for reproductive purposes, and if you want to have a child, it’s probably going to involve a vagina at some point. But, in the anal only lifestyle, that’s its only function. Outside of that, it doesn’t serve any purpose. When I (and others) refer to it as “useless”, that’s what we mean—and we’re often exaggerating this for a mix of comedic and fantasy/fetish purpose. Try not to take things so seriously and recognize that we are in fact aware that babies come from vaginas.

Anonymous: It may be your blog, but are you really entitled to show disrespect to other practices? I’m all into anal, but you’re being the same as those who disrespect anal sex

analsexonly: If that were my goal, I would be entitled to do so. That’s kind of the point of it being my blog, I’m free to use it how I please, and people choose to follow it if they like what I have to say. It is not and never will be a neutral blog, and it will always be biased in favor of anal sex and the anal only lifestyle. It’s right there in the name: Anal Sex Only.

If you have your own ideas for how anal sex should be discussed on tumblr, you’re more than welcome to create your own blog and pursue your own motivations. Don’t try to force other blogs to meet your personal standards.

You keep saying I’m being the same as people who are anti-anal, but you seem to misunderstand my intentions. My goal is not to treat vaginal and anal equally, it is explicitly to advocate for anal exclusively and the exclusion of recreational vaginal sex. Some of this is done quite seriously, some is done with humor.

Anonymous: You are a man, right? So how do you know anal is all that good? Your ass has been fucked any time? Do you like being fucked?

I enjoy anal play as well, yes, but that’s not essential to knowing that women can love anal. Seeing the pleasure and orgasms women get from anal is enough for that, and having them beg for more and to never use their pussy or clit again.

Anonymous: Why do you manipulate women into sodomy?

I encourage people to try it, provide advice on how to enjoy it, and suggest they experiment with vaginal and clitoral denial. It’s up to each individual person whether they do anything I say.

Anonymous: Hi, I am wondering about your recent answer where it looks like you wrote “I am not a woman.” I thought this blog was written by a woman, but now I am confused!

It’s not. I’m a guy and always have been. If anyone thought I was a woman, that was an assumption, because I’ve never claimed to be.