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Posts about the Anal Only Lifestyle blog and community itself, rather than the concept of anal only.


Do You Have Something Against Vaginal Sex?

Anonymous: Hello! I’ve been following this page for a while, and I’ve been wondering, do you have something against vaginal sex? In some gif comments it seems that that kind of sex is being panned. Don’t get me wrong, I love anal sex, and when I marry I want to do it always with my future wife, but I’m just curious

analsexonly: This blog is called “Anal Sex Only”, and is advocating fully replacing vaginal sex with anal, so yes, vaginal sex is generally panned in content here. This is a porn blog, however, so there is always a certain level of fantasy mixed in. I do encourage people who love anal to try being anal only for at least a while and see what they think about it themselves. Some people end up loving it and stay that way, some decide it’s not for them, and others may go back and forth a bit. But there are a lot of people who love the fantasy of going anal only, even if they don’t necessarily do so in reality. This blog is intended for everyone with interest in the idea (or just people who like anal), whether they just get off to it or have strictly decided to never have vaginal sex again. As such, there’s a wide spectrum of anal only related themes, some more hard-lined than others.

As for whether I personally have something against vaginal sex—kind of, and kind of not. I don’t judge or look down on anyone who enjoys vaginal sex and wants to keep having it, either along with anal or in exclusivity. Everyone should do what they enjoy and what works for them. But I don’t like vaginal intercourse myself—physically I enjoy it a lot less, and I find it a lot less satisfying than anal. It’s certainly not a bad thing, I just find anal so much more enjoyable and satisfying that I personally prefer to avoid engaging in vaginal when anal is a better option.

For a less fantasy-based discussion about the idea of going anal only, see the Anal Only Lifestyle blog and forum.

Message: You’re Misleading Men and Manipulating Women And You Should Be Ashamed!

Anonymous: I know you won’t publish this, because this is the internet and it’s full of cowards. But here’s the thing: Disinformation. That’s what you’re doing and you should feel ashamed about it. You are misleading men and manipulating women. Some poor and confused women might actually believe that they could benefit or even orgasm from anal penetration. But in the end it’s just a lie you tell people to feed your own twisted perversions. And you know it. Stop it. Right. Now.

Ah, good, it’s been a while since I got one of these. Speaking of cowards, nicely done with the anonymous accusation.

There is zero misleading or manipulating. Does everyone love anal? No—not all women or men do. But there are many women who do, and a decent-sized subset of those who prefer it. Is this really so surprising? What makes you so sure that it can’t be true?

I’m clear and open about my agenda of encouraging everyone to try anal sex in a manner that makes it likely to be enjoyable for everyone, and for people who enjoy anal sex to experiment with being anal only. What’s your agenda? How about you come off anon and have an actual dialogue about this rather than throwing around accusations?

The original version of this post on Tumblr got the following responses from blog followers:

beekahsweet: I’ve always liked anal, and now, with just 4 weeks of some dedicated plugging and training, anal has been easier than ever and I crave it multiple times a day.

ihavebeenexceptionallynaughty: I can sometimes come from anal sex and only anal sex and I most definitely have lady parts and identify as full-on lady. So yeah, it’s real.

rostarocksI love anal and cum way more and harder this way… and squirt uncontrollably! so that person is way mis informed. I’m not anal only but it is my preference!

kloudkush: Anal orgasms > pussy orgasms

Fucking LOL, what is wrong with people?
“I have a personal vendetta against anal penetration and instead of being mature and realizing that everyone’s sexual preferences are different, I’m going to demonize an entire sex act! I am right! You are wrong!”
Go take a closet of gross old man dicks up your butt.

Message: A Huge Step

currently-unsupervisedI’m really impressed with your reply to the vaginal abandonment anon. I first read her ask and thought, “Damn that’s hot” but you’re right, it’s a huge step. I think it’s awesome that you warned her to be careful instead of egging her on.

I think that orgasm denial and/or clitoral abandonment can be very fun things for people who approach them in a fully consensual manner and want them for themselves, but you’ve got to make sure it’s really what you want, and I don’t think it’s ever good to dive straight into something like that without easing into it through a trial period or ten.

Message: Anal Only Means Anal and Oral

outlaw-pete1966: I’m sure that ANAL ONLY means ANAL and oral (or any other kind of stimulation) EXCEPT vaginal … or am I missing something here ?

Absolutely correct. “Anal only” already existed as somewhat-used term before this blog was created, so it’s what I went with, but it really refers to the exclusion of vaginal sex rather than the total exclusivity of anal.

Message: Inspired to Try Anal

yesfortheloveofbdsm: I’ve always preferred blowjobs to vaginal sex because I just never felt the vaginas I’ve penetrated were tight enough for as much enjoyment as I would like so being a Master I have relied on masturbation & receiving blowjobs as the primary form of pleasure & never thought of anal because it just didn’t seem exciting but this blog has inspired me to try anal. I’ve never done it before but from what I see & read here and elsewhere it’s tighter than vaginal so I think I’ll like it. Thanks so much!

Definitely try anal. Many people who don’t enjoy vaginal or can’t get off from it have found anal to be much more satisfying for their needs.

Message: You Need To Have Done Anal Yourself To Have Any Credibility Whatsoever

the-dude-with-a-clue: Been really having a look at your blog. Really pro-anal, aren’t you. (Rhetorical) What’s good for the goose is good for the gander, eh? So, what about yourself? You talk the talk. To have any credibility whatsoever you need to have walked the motherfucking walk. Have you been fucked in the ass or are you nothing more than a big-mouthed hypocrite? What say you?

I have no problem with men also enjoying anal stimulation, and I’ve been known to do so myself. This blog is predominantly about female anal, however.

I take offense to your tone, and your assertion that for a man to prefer having anal sex with a woman or to know that some women prefer receiving anal over vaginal he needs to also experience getting fucked in the ass. You could’ve just asked your question politely and gotten a polite response rather than being a jerk about it.

Message: You’re A Fucking Idiot

Anonymous: Lol you’re a fucking idiot. “Do the smart thing and start offering up your ass first”? Because sex should be all about the pleasure of the man and what he wants goes? I personally don’t like being fucked in the ass and i dont feel i get anything out of it and any guy who isnt okay with it can fuck off and play with his fleshjack some more ?? wow some people have such shitty opinions ??

If you don’t like anal, don’t do it. Most people will get enjoyment from anal sex/play if they do it correctly, and it can be worth experimenting with some anal play on your own just to see what it takes to give yourself anal pleasure, but you’re obviously under no obligation to do so if you don’t want to. I encourage trying, however. It’s worth it, for your own pleasure.

Suggestions To Get Ass Fucked More Regularly?

Anonymous: I hate to bug you, but do you have any suggestions for how to get my Daddy to fuck my ass more regularly? I’ve asked him, he knows I love taking it in the ass, and how wet it gets me when he holds me down and fucks me there after whipping me with his belt. But he doesn’t do it often and I wish he would. Taking his cock in my ass makes me feel like I’m his property to do with as he pleases. Any suggestions?

on-your-knees-where-you-belong: Wow aren’t you just every ass fuckers wet dream. You could always try begging. I find it very difficult to resist my kittens begging. She’s just too damn cute when she does it. Maybe sit down and right him a letter telling him all the reasons you think you deserve to be fucked in the ass more? I can’t remember where but I’m pretty sure there’s a blog which is all about anal only girls. You’ll probably find some inspiration there. I’ll try and find it and edit this post with it.

Daddy xx

P.s. nobody is ever bothering me if they just want to ask for advice 🙂

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