analk1ng: Love the posts on your sister blog. They illustrate really nicely how insignificant and irrelevant the vagina looks during anal sex. Anal sex somehow manages to look so much more natural and normal than vaginal ever does. The perfect meeting of male/female. Go figure.

Anonymous: In response to what you said yesterday – I think it’s fantastic that places like this are giving a channel for people to discuss this subject. I agree with you about how as more people try it and are open about anal only then it becomes “normal”. That’s one of the reasons why people don’t try anal more often – simply because people follow the herd and don’t want to be different. Because we all know there’s no physical reason why it can’t be done and is actually preferable to many.

Anonymous: Do you see this lifestyle becoming more mainstream? Like I guess many other guys like the idea and can think about it but not necessarily say it. Now maybe its all about to change? I see women more willing to try anal plus so much porn is anal or often only anal (which is the kind I prefer). What do you think? Not long ago there wasn’t even anything like this and other blogs, but now there is a more talk around this subject than there was.

As anal itself becomes more accepted by the mainstream, and as porn shifts more towards anal, I think we’ll see a lot more people whose sex lives focus primarily or exclusively on anal sex.

Right now, there are many who would never consider it (and wouldn’t consider anal at all) because of attitudes about it when they were raised or bad first experiences. However, anal is gaining popularity among younger generations who grew up with it prevalent among friends and in porn and so tried it early on, and enjoyed it.

Anal only will likely experience a slow shift the same way. As more people do it and talk about it, more will consider trying it. People who already really enjoy anal as part of their regular sex life are going to be more likely to consider going anal only.

Every woman is built differently, and while many associate their vagina with pleasure, many others have found that their anus and rectum provide even more pleasure—sometimes because of the internal components of their clitoris being closer to the rectum and allowing orgasm to be triggered exclusively by internal anal penetration. Others need external clitoral stimulation along with anal but find that to be far more pleasurable than vaginal and result in far better orgasms (or for some, orgasms when they were impossible with vaginal).

I expect it may always be less mainstream than vaginal, though I think it would be amazing if anal became the predominant form of sex practiced. If people are more open about their own preference for the anal only lifestyle it will slowly shift towards becoming more mainstream as more curious people give it a try.

Anonymous: Hi, I’m not sure if this blog is still active, but I just wanted to say thank you for doing your part to help popularize the Anal Only lifestyle. As a self-described anal-only woman who’s managed to abstain from vaginal stimulation of any kind for nearly a year, I am a firm believer in all that you profess. Again, thank you! F.

You’re welcome!

I’ve been attracted to anal sex all my life. When I started watching porn, I was drawn to anal porn much more than vaginal. When fantasizing about sex, it was always anal rather than vaginal sex I wanted, but I never considered the possibility of going entirely anal only at the time.

After reading about the experiences of other people and their success with long term anal only relationships, however, the idea immediately turned me on. There is something tremendously hot about the idea of subverting the body’s “intent” and deriving all pleasure from anal penetration and completely abandoning the vagina. Effectively reprogramming the brain and shifting the pleasure center.

For many, men and women alike, anal sex provides immense pleasure and can allow women much greater orgasms than vaginal. For some women who cannot orgasm vaginally, anal provides the only way to do so.

So what about any of you? Why does the idea appeal to you, and have any of you successfully done so long term?

This is a sister blog to Anal Only, which is for porn following the same theme, while this is for text posts and discussion on the subject.

Are any of you out there currently engaged in an anal only relationship, or have you been in the past? If so, speak up! What have your experiences been? What do you like about going anal only? What makes you prefer anal sex over vaginal? If you don’t have anal only experience but are interested in giving up vaginal sex, your input is welcome as well. What makes you interested in the idea, and how seriously are you considering it? What things make you hesitant to do so?

It is my hope that this can grow into a platform for interesting discussion of the topic and perhaps encourage some others interested in the idea to give it a try.

Anal only!