NPNWife: Still going strong. Husband woke me this morning with his lubed cock pressing into my ass. I told him Saturday, at the party where he fucked my ass in our friends’ bathroom, twice, that he could take me however/whenever he wanted. I woke feeling the head of his cock pushing into me. He kept telling me how much he loves fucking my ass. I made him tell me how much better than my pussy it is. Hotter. Tighter. Feels so much better. Told me he was so glad to give up my pussy for my ass.

I’ve been showing him my favorite anal only and pussy abandonment tumblrs, so he knows what to do/say to really push my buttons. He had his cock buried inside of me, telling me that he never wants to go back to the way it was, that even after this month he won’t be fucking my pussy more than he fucks my ass. And how much he loved me avoiding my clit, like I was giving up my orgasms for him. Told him how much I loved not cumming for him, to focus on him and his pleasure this month.

And when he was about to cum, I begged him to pull out and fuck my mouth. The ATM really blows him away. I sucked him both times at the party. He made me lick his cock entirely clean the 2nd time. The naughtiness of doing that drove me insane. He made me go around the rest of the party without cleaning my mouth out. Every time I talked to someone I wondered if he could tell I had just tasted cock from my ass. I was literally dripping wet. My ass is sore, but I’m still loving this.

Sounds amazing, and should inspire any other couples still considering taking part in No Pussy November themselves to stop considering and start doing, lest they miss out on the sort of fun the two of you are having.

The way things are going so far, by the end of the month he might not want to go back to your pussy at all—and you might not either!

NPNWife here: Husband is in the shower. I just did ATM for the first time. I didn’t want to practice beforehand. I was worried I wouldn’t like it and would chicken out. Decided to just go for it. I didn’t tell him. Just told him to tell me when he was going to cum. I flipped around and sucked his cock straight into my throat. He screamed “holy fuck!” and started cumming almost immediately. The smell and taste, it was overwhelming. I can still taste my ass. I almost came from just how naughty it was. My pussy is sopping and my clit has been throbbing. But I’ve refused to touch and wouldn’t let him touch either. Total denial. I feel like I’m on fire all over. He asked what brought that on. I told him I wanted him to enjoy everything that had to do with anal this month. He asked if I would do ATM again. I told him for the rest of the month I would suck his dick straight from my ass whenever he wanted. “Even if it’s dirty?” I kissed the head of his cock and said yes, no matter what.

The anal only, orgasm denial, and vaginal abandonment blogs have been really helpful in helping me get into this. We’re only 4 days in, but I’m finding it incredibly hot. And I know he does to. We’re going to a party tomorrow and he told me he wants me to wear my plug with no panties and a dress and he wants to find a secluded spot at some point and fuck my ass at our friend’s house. So, wish us luck! And if anyone has any other ideas on things to do, I’d love to hear them.

I’m so glad to hear it went and is continuing to go amazingly well and that you’re so turned on by being anal only and going ass to mouth. That’s something that’s really great about No Pussy November, I think, it attracts people for a variety of reasons but ultimately turns on all sorts of people who may not have otherwise even considered the pleasures and benefits of going anal only and yet often find that they really love it by the end of the month.

Good luck and keep enjoying the amazing fun you’re having together.

distinguishedmentalitydinosaur: So, I have been instructed to fuck myself in the arse for 20 to 30 minutes each day as part of both anal training and denial. Today, whilst completing my daily challenge I had to stop twice as I felt as though I was on the edge of orgasm, even once I had finished my challenge my cunt and arse hole were twitching! I’ve never cum from just anal stimulation and this occurring made me so happy! However, as I’m not allowed to orgasm, I had to pause before I could continue…

This challenge is making me constantly dripping wet and has had me soak through clothing, underwear (when I’m allowed to wear it) and has left me waking up with a wet patch on the sheets, I’m such a desperate horny mess.

gbw1414: I have finally decided, after two months of celibacy, what I want. I want to be a Daddy’s little cum slut. I want to be anal and oral only. I want him to take me and use me however and whenever he wants. I want to never cum unless he forces or allows me. I want to eat his ass while he jerks off to other women. I want him to give out my holes to whoever he wants. I want to watch him with prettier women and clean his cum. I wanna worship his cock.

dumblittlething: me and daddy made it official that I am now anal only, but will also be denied from cumming.

Only my daddy gets to fuck my ass too, so if someone else wants to fuck me, then they’ll just have to settle for my mouth.

@degrade-and-ruin right, Daddy? ☺️

Anonymous: My husband has been trying to get me to commit to going anal only for a few months now. He recently found your blog and showed me it to prove that it’s a thing that people do and it’s helping to win me round. He says that I have to promise I’ll never touch my pussy or my clit in a sexual way ever again, and always keep my ass clean and ready for him. The only time he’ll be willing to go down on me is to rim me, and I will get no vaginal/clitoral stimulation whatsoever. Is that what you promote?

What I promote is doing some subset of those things if they are mutually appealing to all partners and everyone is on board with it and wants to do it. I definitely do not encourage pressuring anyone who isn’t interested to give up things they enjoy or do things they don’t enjoy. I also don’t encourage diving immediately into a state of absolute denial. Clitoral/orgasm denial, edging, etc., are some more advanced things that some people enjoy, but there are many others who consider themselves anal only who play with their clit and pussy in a non-penetrative manner during anal sex. Both are completely legitimate (as is not being anal only!).

Is anal sex something you already enjoy? If so, I would suggest a trial period of a month or more going anal only to see how you like it. If you enjoy being anal only, then try it for a longer period of time. If you don’t, then stop. It’s got to be something you both enjoy for it to work. And if you want to experiment with more advanced stages of denial, approach those gradually, and later. If you don’t, don’t. There’s nothing wrong with your husband wanting those things, but if you don’t share the interest, don’t let him force them on you. I’m not a fan of one sexual partner giving ultimatums or telling another what is going to happen from now on. Sex is a shared act, and everyone has an equal say.

Anonymous: I was rubbing my clit last night, didn’t get near cumming b4 I propped my hips up with pillows and handed my partner our Sliquid gel and begged him to dump a huge load in my butt. He’s so gentle but goes do deep and calls me his good anal whore. ♡_♡;

Good for you! It sounds like you’re exactly that.

Anonymous: Are you continuing to go without complete orgasms, ruining them when you have them? If so, are you finding that this continues to be a key to successful anal only for you?

dumbandpretty: We are; I LITERALLY can’t remember the last real, non-ruined orgasm I had. I don’t know if my lack of orgasms (I should clarify here: I mean clitoral) has been beneficial to our anal-only efforts, but I don’t think it hurts, either.

curvy-slut: It has been six weeks and today I’m allowed to cum. I’m not even sure if I want, but I need to reboot myself to start a new denial period.

To deserve cuming, I had to fuck my ass using mint toothpaste as a lube for 20 minutes which felt really really long. It stung SO much, that was like a torture. And the worst thing is that I want to repeat this soon. God, I’m so messed up.
Btw, since new year I’ve been officially anal only. Nothing goes into my cunt for pleasure, I don’t even think about it and refer to my ass as my “hole” – the only hole worth mentioning, and this really turns me on. It seems so fitting. And ass-fucking feels soooo much better.

begginglittleslut: Since I spend so much time when I’m fingering myself thinking about being anal only I started wondering if when I get the guts/motivation/time to start being anal only if I’ll want to try to orgasm from anal. Mostly I think no. That I just want to be permanently drippy and denied but then eeeek.

aggressionoutlet: Baby steps. If you can make yourself cum just from playing with your ass, you’ll start to realize that you don’t need your cunt and eventually you can work yourself toward realizing that you don’t need to cum.