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Anonymous: I really love the idea of having my pussy and clit blocked off so I can’t touch them even if I wanted to, but I’m not ready to commit to piercings and I don’t find chastity belts sexy at all. Are there any other good alternatives?
Vaginal chastity in combination with the anal only lifestyle is a popular desire (though certainly not necessary if someone doesn’t want it for themselves). It’s totally understandable that you want to explore the idea without committing to something permanent (or expensive), however!
Types of Temporary Vaginal Chastity
Tape is a popular and easy option for quick short-term chastity that covers your pussy and clit and makes them inaccessible. Duct tape and medical tape are the best options here, but even they won’t last too long, as your sweat and vaginal fluids will loosen it over time. All you need to do is carry a roll with out and apply more as needed, however.
Clamps of various forms can be effective in the very short term, while masturbating or having sex. Clothespins and chip clips are easily accessible, but you can’t control their clamping strength. Other clamps, especially those specifically for use on skin, like nipple and clit clamps, may have adjustments so it doesn’t squeeze too tightly.
Numbing creams and gels like Orajel can temporarily eliminate any sensations from your clit or pussy. You want to use a small amount, because these are anesthetic creams and you don’t want to overuse it, but it’s generally safe in small doses. Get advice from a doctor if you have any concerns about their safety or potential reactions or interactions for yourself.
Some use superglue or similar medical grade or body-safe glues, including eyelash glue, as temporary chastity. It can be safe to do, but you should test it in one small spot first, leave gaps between glued sections in order to allow urination, and be sure not to get any glue on your urethra. Glues break down fairly quickly with contact with sweat, urine and vaginal fluids.
Sometimes Mental Enforcement of Chastity is Best
Ultimately, though, these are all temporary and some may prove more trouble than they’re worth to use regularly. It’s worth giving at least some a try, though, if you’re interested. Longer term, you may just find it more effective to achieve a goal of vaginal and clitoral denial through self control and practice.
Or, if you decide you want permanent closure of your vagina, chastity piercings can be effective for that for some people. You’d want to meet with a professional piercer and walk through the steps involved for that.
