Anonymous: I really love anal but my current daddy hates it. How can I make him fuck my ass? I’m dying to be fisted again. :'(
ditzystella: Truthfully? You’re with the wrong Daddy in my opinion if he “hates” it and you’re longing for it. So, maybe if you really want to be with him, get permission to use some toys on yourself? Are you cute? I can help! 🙂 haha
Actually I need help properly answering this, i’m not happy with my answer. @analsexonly can you please help here? Thank you!
Some people just don’t like certain sex acts and there isn’t much that’s going to change that for them, as much as we might wish there was. For example, I hate vaginal sex personally and have little to no interest in ever, ever doing it again. Nothing’s going to change my mind about that. It’s just who I am—I love anal and oral sex instead of vaginal.
However, not everyone is necessarily as set in stone about it as I am. You can talk with him and ask him what it is about anal that he doesn’t like. Is it actually the sex itself, or is it something else? Maybe he dislikes the need for prep with anal, or finds it limiting because you have to warm up to it first and he can’t go as hard or fast, or something of that nature. Some don’t like it because they feel the romance and spontaneity of sex may be reduced with something that requires more “work” before starting. These things can be mitigated if that’s his concern. Other people just don’t like the idea of it, find it gross, or don’t like how it feels. Some of those things have potential solutions, others may not. Everybody’s different, and if he’s set in his opposition to anal sex, you’ll have to decide how important it is for you to get it.